How Narcissists EXPLOIT Your Natural Longing for Love & Belonging
It is natural to want to be loved and love. We organically want to belong. Absolutely! It’s healthy, too. However, narcissistic people and all Hijackals excel at manipulating you and
Narcissists are Masters of Crazy-making WhatAboutism
Ever feel your head spin when you’re trying to express your feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs to a Hijackal? Of course, you have. That’s because they are masters of this
Narcissists: Rigid Thinkers Who Demand to be Right
Rigid thinking and what-about-ism are seriously linked. Know someone who is rigid in their thinking? They are RIGHT and that’s all there is to it? And, if you don’t agree
Self-Centered vs Narcissistic. Is There a Difference?
Yes, narcissistic people are self-centered, but does the reverse hold true? Are self-centered people always narcissistic? Important distinctions here that can help you understand the troubling folks in your life.
Why Narcissists Insist You’re NOT GOOD ENOUGH…even though they chose you!
Hijackals insist you’re not good enough…even though they chose you or gave birth to you. What’s up with that!@##%%!? It’s crazy-making and it’s important to understand why this happens. And,
Why It’s Healthiest to Focus on Yourself, Not on the Narcissist
Don’t Lose or Abandon Yourself! Narcissistic people want all the attention as well as all the air in the room, right? You can find yourself giving it to them in
Why Living With a Hijackal is Like Juggling Jello
No object constancy! That is very much missing in a relationship with a narcissistic Hijackal, and it’s an essential ingredient of a healthy relationship. Does your relationship feel like juggling
Why You Can’t Know, Like & Trust a Narcissistic Hijackal
…even when you really want to believe you can. They keep you guessing, don’t they? Narcissists–and all Hijackals–like to keep you in uncertainty, chaos, and confusion. You HOPE you know
Feel Lonely WITH Your Partner?
Recognize These Sure Signs They Are Emotionally Unavailable …AND, it’s not your fault! You can feel VERY lonely in a supposedly close relationship. You do everything you can to close
How & Why Hijackals Reject Equality
So frustrating, disappointing, and infuriating! Hijackals will NOT allow you to be equal in all the ways that count in a relationship. They reject it. It helps you to see
Dealing with Hijackal Lies: Pathological & Natural
Can you even believe when they say they love you? Lies of any kind undermine trust. Big difference between folks who decide to lie and those who don’t. Learn how
How to Safely Read Narcissistic Hijackal Smiles & Smirks
You need to know this to keep yourself emotionally safe (and physically, too!) Can you trust a smile? How do you read a smirk? What’s the difference? What do they
Recognizing the Emotional Abuse of Chronic Criticism
Live with someone or raised by someone who was always finding fault? Always against something? Always putting you down? The wear and tear of these kinds of emotional abuse is
10 Root Fears That Hijackals Prey On…Relentlessly
**TW** AUDIO and transcript CONTAIN some brief references to sexual abuse. We all have things we fear, things we may not even be conscious of. Hijackals exploit your deepest root
Reading the Shifting Scary Eyes of Hijackals As They Try to Control You
Yes, Hijackal’s eyes are not the windows to their souls as much as windows into their fears and desires to control. It’s real. You’re not imagining it. You can feel
Beware of Introjection & Projection!
You may not know these terms but you know the undercutting feeling one produces, and the scramble the other does! Very important to recognize and say no to! Listen in.
