Six Constantly Flying Red Flags That Should Tip You Off to Hijackals
You’re been in the relationship for a while. Maybe, it’s even your parent! Or, a new partner? Or, you’re waking up to the fact that you simply cannot please your partner because s/he WILL NOT be pleased, no matter what you do! Your partner may be a #Hijackal® Your partner may have narcissistic behaviors and self-centered motives. Your
Believe Behavior! Why Narcissists Exploit & Laugh at Your Vulnerabilities GUEST – Kim Saeed
Do you so want to believe someone loves you, yet it just doesn’t feel like it? In this episode, I’m talking about what to really believe about someone. My guest, Kim Saeed, and I talk about narcissistic behavior, and why they need to put you down, tear you down. Too many people readily believe the
12 Damaging Ways Your Narcissistic Mother Lied to You About Who You Are
Whether your mother had narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, or antisocial tendencies, she will have lied to you to make herself superior. Time to uncover the lies, and be free! You don’t have to wonder where your self-doubts came from if you were raised by a mother who had narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, or antisocial–Hijackal®–tendencies. She made sure
Have You Experienced Abuse Without Acknowledging it? Times UP!
Too many children experience emotional abuse. It seeps into the fabric of their being, and colors all their relationships in adult life. Are you recognizing it? Today’s episode will help. Being abused is a BIG deal! Not recognizing it is also a BIG deal. Often, when it happens when you are young, it becomes buried
Finding Yourself Again After Trauma, Grief & Loss GUEST: Dr. Sherry Cormier
You want to feel whole again after you’ve had trauma and loss. And, you can. Today’s episode will help you find your center again, and move forward, even if the pain or loss is old. In this episode, I talk about steps you can take to manage the pain of trauma or loss. You’ve experienced
10 Reasons You May Have For Not Walking Away From Your Abuser
You have good reasons for staying, I know. If any of these ten reasons I’m sharing today are the ones you’re telling yourself, I hope you see it differently after you listen. I’m here for you. Could any of these things be true? Your relationship is bad. And, you don’t want to admit it. You
Is Your Hijackal® Partner Difficult, or Actually Dangerous?
Being with a Hijackal is a little like being part of that urban legend of cooking frogs: you don’t notice the dysfunction and abuse because the heat is slowly turned up. And, then? You’re cooked! You want to believe that a Hijackal can change. In fact, most people in relationship with these difficult, toxic people
How Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering Others GUEST: Tracy Malone
Gaslighting, Personal Trauma, Learning the Hard Way, and Lemons Out of Lemonade. GUEST: Tracy Malone, All around amazing woman, and founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com In today’s episode, I talk about “Gaslighting.” It’s a real thing. When someone else wants to tell you what you think, feel, intend, or have done, and they insist they are right, there’s
Learn to Say NO! to Toxic People? It Requires Saying YES! to Yourself
Toxic people, difficult people, push you to do what they want you to do. Learn to say no. They will shame you, blame you, and game you into it…or, at least try. And, when you allow the manipulation, you feel one of two things: hopeful that, if you do what they want, they will like
6 Subtle Signs You’re Being Manipulated and How To Stop It
Hijackals–difficult, toxic people–catch you unawares. Don’t let them! SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS® with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor Don’t you just hate it when you feel manipulated? That’s what happens far too often when you have a Hijackal in your life. And, you hope for better, but nothing really seems to change.
Raised by a Hijackal, a Toxic, Difficult, Even Narcissistic Parent?
If that’s the case. deep down you may believe some very negative things about yourself. Today. I talk about what happens if you’re raised by a toxic, difficult person. What are some of the things that you might look at within yourself and: the way your life is going the way your relationships are going the
12 Signs You Are in a Love/Hate Relationship And Need Help
There is something wrong, something off, in your relationship. You can feel it, and you may not be quite able to put words to it, to describe it to yourself even. Yet, you know it’s not right! Good start! Go with your gut! Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic, disturbing–and often dangerous–people, have “tells.” Those are the