You may not know these terms but you know the undercutting feeling one produces, and the scramble the other does! Very important to recognize and say no to! Listen in.
Hijackals–people with narcissistic, borderline, passive-aggressive, anti-social traits–play to win. Only to win. They cannot and will not tolerate blame or shame to touch them and they work hard at being two or three steps ahead of either of those at all times. This episode sheds light on two sad, and important, ways that they try to make you take responsibility for their deficits. As I said, sad!
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- What projection is, and its purpose
- What introjection is
- How introjection can be used positively AND negatively to shape you without your awareness
- How Hijackals use projection to protect themselves
- How you might use introjection to misguidedly try to get a Hijackal to like you and treat you well (p.s. That won’t happen.)
You may be familiar with projection. That’s when the Hijackal projects their feelings or characteristics onto you, usually things they are afraid are true about themselves. Much more on that to hear.
You may not be familiar with introjection. That’s when you unconsciously internalize and incorporate the characteristics, ideas and attitudes of other people into your own thoughts and behaviors, usually to reduce your anxiety or fear of loss.
Now, you can imagine what havoc these two things can create within you…but, only if you don’t realize what’s going on. This episode will help you clearly understand what these terms mean and how they play out. (p.s. NOT WELL!) It’s important to know these distinctions so you’ll be able to take charge when you see them!
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