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Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show

Great Relationships Require Trust. How Can You Build & Rebuild it? GUEST: Scott Schilling
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Save Your Sanity! Help for Handling Hijackals®

Why You Shouldn't Go Back to a Hijackal® & How To Stay Away Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
4 Scary Reasons Why Unconditional Love May be a Dangerous Myth
5 Ways to Keep Your Courage UP While Leaving a Difficult Person, a Hijackal

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Carrie

I want to thank you for your work – I have come across it on Youtube while searching for how to respond to PA behaviour.

I have ordered and read your “Stop – that’s crazy making”, “Escaping the Hijackal trap”, “The Hijackal trap” and now I am reading “Kaizen for couples”.

Your work has really helped me see what is going on in my relationship with my partner.

I can’t afford individual therapy at the moment (I plan to do it), but I am in Al-Anon which also helps a lot.

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As foretold, my ex got busy trying to engage me on Christmas Day. Thank you, Dr. Shaler for the heads up. Because of this page and your help, I was able to have a wonderful Christmas and not get sucked in ! That’s progress.

~ Client

I’m so relieved. I’ve been to several [sic:counselors] who sided with my crazy-making partner. Finally, someone who gets it, knows the feeling, sees the problem, and has helped me take positive steps.

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Anne

Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people. You can see her accomplishments at http://forrelationshiphelp.com.

Laura Rubinstein

Ah ! Because of this page and your help . You’re an angel, honestly. I would still be doing the same thing I was doing a year ago if I hadn’t met you.

From client who I helped leave a HJ relationship that had been dragging on for twelve years.

I thought of you many times over the last period of time.

I want to express my thank you to you as you helped me very much in a period of time that was difficult for me and when I had no knowledge nor methods to overcome them alone.

Further more, I’ve read some of your books and conversations with you stimulated wonderful work on myself, which is ongoing.

Thank you so much.

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