Reading the Shifting Scary Eyes of Hijackals As They Try to Control You
Yes, Hijackal’s eyes are not the windows to their souls as much as windows into their fears and desires to control. It’s real. You’re not
October 5, 2021
Reading the Shifting Scary Eyes of Hijackals As They Try to Control You
Yes, Hijackal’s eyes are not the windows to their souls as much as windows into their fears and desires to control. It’s real. You’re not
Beware of Introjection & Projection!
You may not know these terms but you know the undercutting feeling one produces, and the scramble the other does! Very important to recognize and
Are You Striving to Be Good Enough for a Narcissist?
If you had a narcissistic or Hijackal parent, you were pre-conditioned to accept the poor treatment of a Hijackal. That’s difficult enough! Then, you may
HIJACKALS & THEIR WARPED SENSE OF FAIR, JUST & EQUAL
Hijackals & other narcissistic people have neither thought nor intention of leveling any playing field. No, it’s about the all important winning. Why? What can
8 Damaging Roles Narcissistic Parents Assign to Their Children
…How They Affect Your Self-Esteem & Adult Relationships You had no choice in the role a narcissistic parent created for you and assigned to you.
One phony way narcissistic people keep you hooked. All those promises! All those dreams! Was it future faking? That’s a very common way that #Hijackals
EMOTIONAL ABUSE: The High Cost of Enabling a Narcissistic Hijackal
There can be significant and damaging results to enabling a narcissist that you don’t want to stay blind to. You think you’re doing your best,
The Endless, Exhausting Competitiveness of Hijackals in Toxic Relationships
Recognize the large and small ways toxic people find to compete with you, even if only within their minds. Then, see it in daily life
How Living With Or Being Raised By A Narcissist Actually Traumatizes You
If you downplay the trauma, you won’t take steps to recover. That would be a shame. Never underestimate the effect of having a narcissistic parent
Are Your Boundaries Secure, Or Too Porous To Keep You Safe?
Are your boundaries secure or about as porous as a flow-through tea bag? Boundaries. You know you need them to define yourself. You know you