Why Narcissists Insist You’re NOT GOOD ENOUGH…even though they chose you!
Hijackals insist you’re not good enough…even though they chose you or gave birth to you. What’s up with that!@##%%!? It’s crazy-making and it’s important to
Why It’s Healthiest to Focus on Yourself, Not on the Narcissist
Don’t Lose or Abandon Yourself! Narcissistic people want all the attention as well as all the air in the room, right? You can find yourself
Why Living With a Hijackal is Like Juggling Jello
No object constancy! That is very much missing in a relationship with a narcissistic Hijackal, and it’s an essential ingredient of a healthy relationship. Does
Why You Can’t Know, Like & Trust a Narcissistic Hijackal
…even when you really want to believe you can. They keep you guessing, don’t they? Narcissists–and all Hijackals–like to keep you in uncertainty, chaos, and
Feel Lonely WITH Your Partner?
Recognize These Sure Signs They Are Emotionally Unavailable …AND, it’s not your fault! You can feel VERY lonely in a supposedly close relationship. You do
How & Why Hijackals Reject Equality
So frustrating, disappointing, and infuriating! Hijackals will NOT allow you to be equal in all the ways that count in a relationship. They reject it.
Dealing with Hijackal Lies: Pathological & Natural
Can you even believe when they say they love you? Lies of any kind undermine trust. Big difference between folks who decide to lie and
How to Safely Read Narcissistic Hijackal Smiles & Smirks
You need to know this to keep yourself emotionally safe (and physically, too!) Can you trust a smile? How do you read a smirk? What’s
Recognizing the Emotional Abuse of Chronic Criticism
Live with someone or raised by someone who was always finding fault? Always against something? Always putting you down? The wear and tear of these
10 Root Fears That Hijackals Prey On…Relentlessly
**TW** AUDIO and transcript CONTAIN some brief references to sexual abuse. We all have things we fear, things we may not even be conscious of.