What does it mean to be “great?”

Your podcast saved me from a world of chaos, fog, confusion, and fear. Everything finally makes sense. I have been listening and learning, connecting the dots, and am tired of sitting in the reality “that this is terrible.” I want and need tools to break extremely unhealthy and deeply rooted family dynamics in order to save my sanity, my marriage, and my family. I especially do not want this to affect my children and how they approach, build, and maintain future relationships.

Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.

That was such a well done interview and so helpful to me! –I took 11 pages of notes! –

My partner offered me your video.. however, I am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now… I always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and I am always to blame.. and eventually I started to believe her as I love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. I feel secure again within myself.  

I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.

Not sure how I found this podcast but she’s saving me from feeling at fault for so many things… the episode on reactive abuse made everything so clear. Thank you for making such great content!

This content has helped me tremendously. I now have tools to recognize and name the tactics being thrown at me and I have become much more empowered to stand in my truth and to stand up for myself. Highly recommend subscribing to all content – a cost effective alternative to (and/or supplementation to) therapy. Thank you Dr. Shaler!

Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.