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Tag Archives: communication skills

Optimize Circles

I’d love to welcome you to my Optimize Circles. I’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, and I’ve created a safe place of support for you, away from Facebook, so you can feel secure. Share your journey. Ask your questions. Learn, grow, and heal. In your life journey, you’ve likely met one or two of Read More > >

Listening in a relationship is important

Listening Well Really Matters. Here’s Why!

Many relationship issues arise from lack of listening. Hearing is NOT enough. You have to listen. The major difference between hearing and listening is that hearing engages your ears only and listening engages your mind. You hear lots of sounds: noises in the house, cars going by, televisions in the background. You don’t listen to these unless…

Passive Aggressive Relationships – When Is It Abuse?

Passive Aggressive Abuse in Relationships Leaving you shaking your head in disbelief, it’s like a nightmare where you try to run away and all you ever find are dead ends with no escape. You may even be dealing with a Hijackal®! It’s crazy-making. It’s infuriating. It’s passive-aggressive behavior! It requires relationship help! It’s covert, stealthy even! You’re…

If you are experiencing relationship drama, you are in the right place.

Here you will find the advice you need to stop the drama! Plus new proven strategies to make your relationship more loving, respectful, honest, trusting, supportive and intimate. RECENT NOTE FROM A CLIENT: “Thank you for helping repair our once great relationship. We both feel strongly it is getting back to where it was because Read More > >

Relationship Help: Good-Enough Parenting between Neglect & Over-Protect

Perfectionistic parents have a tough time with “good-enough” parenting. Other parents have a tough time finding the balance between the two extremes of neglecting and over-protecting. Where is that balance and how do you know if you’ve found it? First of all, we need a little more information. Do you have a life, or are…

Are we all supposed to want to be gazillionaires?

How many emails do you get each week suggesting that you should want to be a millionaire, or that you haven’t made it if you’re not one? This blogger is a little tired of all the hype coming from folks who want to become millionaires by selling you their programs to make you a millionaire…or not. It’s time to wake up and smell the herbal tea!

Wrestling Rhinos

Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work “This book is needed in every business library. Rhoberta Shaler has distilled for you a wealth of specific recommendations to take the anxiety and intimidation out of your workdays. Conflict will always exist but those who can manage it well become masters of it, not victims.” Read More > >

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