Have a NARCISSISTIC ADULT CHILD? 21 Things NOT to Do
Having a Hijackal adult child is confusing, infuriating, disappointing, and frustrating among many other things. (And, it’s worse when your child creates children!) What you
Stuck on a Partner’s POTENTIAL Instead of Their REALITY?
You can get terrible stuck–for a very long time–by buying into a partner’s potential. You can see how it could be, so you hope it
Narcissists are AWKWARD. ANGRY & ARGUMENTATIVE
Sure, narcissistic folks can be charming when you meet them. You just don’t know what’s lurking in the background, right? It can happen quickly that
Is a Narcissistic Hijackal Blowing Up Your Phone?
A BIG complaint I hear so often is that the partner of a narcissistic person–a Hijackal®–is blowing up their phone…daily. It’s such a sign of
Narcissists are Masters of Crazy-making WhatAboutism
Ever feel your head spin when you’re trying to express your feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs to a Hijackal? Of course, you have. That’s because
NARCISSISTS! Do They Hurt You on Purpose?
People ask so often: Do narcissists and other HIjackals know that they are being mean, difficult, coercive, dismissive, and more? You want to know. In
Why Emotional Abusers Prefer People-Pleasers Who Fawn
Maybe, you’re too nice. You fawn. You’ll do anything to keep the peace…or, at least, sidestep potential rage if you can. Peace at any price,
Narcissists PURPOSEFULLY Misunderstand You
So infuriating! Endlessly frustrating! Trying to talk with a narcissistic person–or any Hijackal–can be crazy-making. It usually is if you dare to even remotely want
STOP Getting Your Exercise by WALKING ON EGGSHELLS!
Are you exhausted by running after pleasing someone who seems dedicated to never being pleased? That’s WALKING ON EGGSHELLS. That’s the game. You do everything
Stop GOING THE EXTRA MILE for a NARCISSIST!
It’s tempting. You may think you’re being “nice.” After a while, you’re doing all the giving. Then, it’s exhausting! Why does this dynamic happen? Why