Don’t Be Sucked In By Future Faking!
“OK, Babe, I promise you the world.” But, what about delivery? Learn more about how Hijackals trick you into believing they are GOING TO do
October 16, 2022
Don’t Be Sucked In By Future Faking!
“OK, Babe, I promise you the world.” But, what about delivery? Learn more about how Hijackals trick you into believing they are GOING TO do
BEWARE! Why Hijackals Generalize, Globalize & Gloss Over
Hijackals will do whatever they think they need to do to “win” in any moment. Generalizing, globalizing and glossing over information is a strategy–a trick–they
7 Ways To Spot A ‘Hijackal:’ The Latest Relationship Predator
Your partner is charming and delightful in social settings, but harsh and blaming at home. That behavior is so confusing that you assume you’re the problem, and you
Working Through the GRIEF & RELIEF of Leaving a Hijackal
It can be such a rollercoaster! Whether you’re thinking about leaving, or have left, you can run between grief and relief. Knowing how to think
Why Difficult People At Work Make You Wish You Could Just Stay Home!
Hijackals (a.k.a. chronically difficult people) at work create daily hell when you have to interact with them. How do they show up and what can you do with
Use my “Get to NO Guilt” Strategies in this episode. You often don’t get much support for going no contact with the relentlessly difficult people
Why The Silent Treatment Never Works And 6 Better Ways To Communicate
Does your partner just stop talking to you when you have a dispute, or when you do something he or she isn’t happy about. How
3 Reasons Why Even Good People Are Willing To Laugh At Others’ Humiliation
Celebrity roasts, late night show opening monologues, the covers of tabloid magazines — wherever you turn, there’s a feeding frenzy, hungry for public humiliation. And, we, the viewer, can hardly wait
How That Might Show Up in YOUR Relationships Having a parent who could not love is NO reflection on your lovability! As a child, you
Want A Truly Happy Relationship? Say These 2 Words (A Lot)
“Thank you.” Two simple words that feel SO good to hear. So, why do so many couples use them so infrequently? William James, the great American psychologist,