Expectations, Agreements & Boundaries
When you’re dealing with narcissistic Hijackals, you think one thing is in place, and the Hijackal thinks another. You think you have agreement and you
How To Keep A Hijackal From Tearing You Down
Hijackals–passive-aggressive. narcissistic. anti-social folks–thrive on tearing you down. Sometimes, it’s a slow picking at you. Sometimes, it’s a constant beratement. Either way, you need to
HIJACKALS ARE BOUNDARY BULLDOZERS
Setting Boundaries. Calibrating Results. Making Decisions. No matter what the Hijackal thinks they are entitled to you need to set, express, and hold boundaries. In
Oops! Are You Enabling A Narcissist? Steps to Stopping
You may not realize what counts as enabling when dealing with a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal®. Gain some clarity and insights into good steps
Are Your Boundaries Secure, Or Too Porous To Keep You Safe?
Are your boundaries secure or about as porous as a flow-through tea bag? Boundaries. You know you need them to define yourself. You know you
Why Too Few Boundaries Allow Too Much Drama
Setting boundaries in the face of difficult people can be daunting, I know. It’s especially difficult if you had a difficult Hijackal parent! Get a
Have You Given Up Your Boundaries? | Self-Strengthening
When you are in a relationship with a chronically difficult person, aka a Hijackal•, you have likely given up on expressing your boundaries. Unfortunately, that’s
Difficult People At Work Make You Want to Stay Home
Hijackals®, aka chronically difficult people at work, can create a daily hell when you have to interact with them. How do they show up and
Why Do You Want Him Back When He Treats You Badly?
Has the guy you say you love behaved badly: cheated, yelled, belittled, put down, run off, or badmouthed you? So many times, women write to me
Relationship Advice: “So, the passive-aggressive guy said….!”
Maybe it was Art Linkletter who said, “Passive-aggressive men say the darndest things!” (To be clear, ALL genders have the capacity to be passive-aggressive. Swap
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