Are you a Spreader or a Digger?

Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.

Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people.

Thank you Dr Shaler and may i just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.

I thought of you many times over the last period of time. I want to express my thank you to you as you helped me very much in a period of time that was difficult for me and when I had no knowledge nor methods to overcome them alone. Further more, I’ve read some of your books and conversations with you stimulated wonderful work on myself, which is ongoing. Thank you so much.  

All I can say is OMG. 29 years. I cried with relief and understanding and validate I am not crazy or hard of hearing.

Raised by, and all partners have been Hijackals. The last,was the most damaging. Thanks to you, after nearly 5 years of Severe verbal and emotional abuse, I’m out! I recommend you to women I meet who are in same boat. I’ve learned so much from you, the cycle is over!! Thank You ❤️

Not sure how I found this podcast but she’s saving me from feeling at fault for so many things… the episode on reactive abuse made everything so clear. Thank you for making such great content!

I happened upon this Podcast probably because of others I have listened to on this topic. I love her term “hijackles” and how she defines this type of person vs a healthy person. She is knowledgeable and understanding. You’ll be enlightened as you listen. Thanks! 🥰

Thank you for another great episode. Those master manipulators are tricky. We need all the ammunition we can get to survive this emotional warfare.