Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.
Not sure if you will even read this. I found your podcast. It has changed my life. And I wanted to thank you.
Wonderful, you’re a fairy!!! Your true words go into my body and soul like an antidote, thank you so much!
I loved the science of facial coding recognition introduced by Dr Hill. I intuitively used it in my childhood to escape a beating from my anger addicted Mom. The facial change was a shift in her energy field which opening the curtain to her feelings and helped me get away. It is a life saving technique for everyone living with an abusive person. Thanks so much Rhoberta and Dr Hill for sharing your knowledge.
I love you Rhoberta Shaler; you have given me such power, inner strength, wisdom and invaluable insights. Thank you!
I want to thank you for your work – I have come across it on Youtube while searching for how to respond to PA behaviour.I have ordered and read your “Stop – that’s crazy making”, “Escaping the Hijackal trap”, “The Hijackal trap” and now I am reading “Kaizen for couples”.Your work has really helped me see what is going on in my relationship with my partner.I can’t afford individual therapy at the moment (I plan to do it), but I am in Al-Anon which also helps a lot.I have set some boundrie… Read more
Each week between classes, I was receptive to a lot of the concepts we discussed the previous week. Learning the concepts opens your eyes to them. Being able to recognize them makes them useful tools to build a better relationship.
I can HEAR the genuine concern you have for others in your voice. You are a beautiful soul and I thank you for your service to others’ well-being! 🙏
Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.
Great job! I love all of your videos! I filed for divorce and your videos helped me to do it without crying! You helped me to see clearly now that I deserve so much more. Thank you for your amazing work.