Wow! This episode [on facial coding] helped me paint the entire picture that I’ve had a hard time trying to put my finger on all these years… I’ve been listening now since June and your messages have helped me so very much! I did leave him finally in June and I am trying to establish my life and career again- it is starting over- but the peace in my soul from understanding I’m not crazy ( as he told me I was) and I’m not alone in the comfort I felt staying in that horrible trap he had me c… Read more
I’ve just found your podcast this week, coincidentally on the 1st anniversary of my best friend’s death, man what a wake up! My wife is a Hijackal, Did everything you say. You might as well describe my wife by name. So I just wanted to say thank you, as I write this with tears in my eyes I know the road is long but it has to happen. Thank you for opening my eyes and giving me some oxygen and removing the blur.
Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.
Thank you for another great episode. Those master manipulators are tricky. We need all the ammunition we can get to survive this emotional warfare.
The help and information you share makes me feel I can breathe again. I am not alone in this. Thank you.
Each week between classes, I was receptive to a lot of the concepts we discussed the previous week. Learning the concepts opens your eyes to them. Being able to recognize them makes them useful tools to build a better relationship.
Coming from a non-functional childhood, being able to learn healthy relationship skills and techniques allows me to feel confident in myself as I grow. Thank you, Rhoberta, for your openness, skilll, and kindness throughout the program. I am confident the skills I have learned will make me a better person in all aspects of life.
I enjoyed this program very much. There were tons of interesting anecdotes and advice and information. I feel like I gained a lot of insights and wisdom that will serve me well down the way in the future. I also feel like I met some really great people in my fellow classmates.
Wonderful, you’re a fairy!!! Your true words go into my body and soul like an antidote, thank you so much!
Dr. Shaler, you have just described my previous life!!! I was married to a hijackal for almost 20 years and left 10 years ago. It has taken me 10 years to recover, but I did. Where were you 10 years ago??? I so hope you can help others who feel trapped and crazy as I did. Thank you!