Are You Engaged in All-or-Nothing Thinking?
From mountains to molehills, from molehills to mountains, and nowhere in between. That’s the dangerous territory of an all-or-nothing thinker who actually feels s/he is
Relationship Help: Are You Behaving in Passive-Aggressive Ways?
How do you know if you are passive-aggressive? Aside from the obvious wake of people who won’t get close to you, there are certain things
Relationship Help: New EBook for you on Dealing with Passive-Aggressive Behavior & People
It’s ready for you. My new ebook, STOP! That’s Crazy-Making! will help you to recognize, respond to, and recover from the passive-aggressive behavior of
Relationship Help: Anger + Texting = Trouble!
Oh, the flying fingers that seal our fates! Relationships can be enriched by the loving text messages that let others know we care. But, let
Relationship Help: Is anyone listening???
There is a good reason that we have one mouth and two ears. The body seems to be telling us that listening twice as much
Relationship Help: I say “Potatoes” & S/he says “Petahtuhs!”
Do you think you might need relationship help because your partner sometimes seems like an alien? Does it seem that the person with whom you
Relationship Help: Got boundaries? Or, faultfinding down to an art?
Some people have been carefully trained to be faultfinders. They look for the problems, the inadequacies, the not-quite-good-enoughs, and the less-than-perfects…and pounce! Fault is often
Relationship Help: It Takes a Little Willingness!
I got a call from a potential client the other day. She definitely was looking for relationship help. She has a daughter who is in
Relationship Help: Making excuses is inexcusable
Anticipating a new client today, I came in early. Preparing for her arrival, I was reflecting on what little I knew about her, yet understanding
How to Recover from A Passive Aggressive Relationship
One thing that certainly comes near to the top of the list of relationship problems that are uncovered in my sessions with clients is passive-aggressive behavior. Sometimes, it is hard to see it clearly, but it is never difficult to feel its effects. In this three part series, you will get insights about: How to Recognize a Passive-Aggressive Person; How to Respond to a Passive-Aggressive Person and finally, How to Recover from a Passive-Aggressive Person.