Relationship Help: S/he Who Won’t Be Pleased!
Have you ever lived with, or worked with or for, S/he Who Won’t Be Pleased? No matter how much attention, time or effort you give
December 1, 2016
Relationship Help: S/he Who Won’t Be Pleased!
Have you ever lived with, or worked with or for, S/he Who Won’t Be Pleased? No matter how much attention, time or effort you give
Passive-Aggressive Behavior: Why Do You Tolerate It?
Passive-aggressive behavior is crazy-making. You know–especially if you’ve been reading this blog for a while–that to end passive-aggressive behavior you need to have strong boundaries.
Difficult People At Work Make You Want to Stay Home
Hijackals®, aka chronically difficult people at work, can create a daily hell when you have to interact with them. How do they show up and
Boomerang of Blame: Why Difficult People Make It All Your Fault
“It’s crazy-making! No matter how wrong s/he is, it’s always my fault. I’m to blame!” That’s what I hear from so many clients: everything is
Trapped By a Hijackal in Sheep’s Clothing? Beware!
Hijackals™ are chameleons when you first meet them. They will be just what you want them to be…and that’s the beginning of the path to feeling
What To Do When You’re Feeling Beat Up By Other People
Do you ever have a day when you don’t feeling like risking getting out of bed in the morning? I’m talking about feelings, not about
Here’s an insightful story–an example of a client’s learning–that illustrates the truth of the title of this blog. Who you are truly is what you do…and, there is no escaping that fact, no matter how you justify it! Read on…
Competitive People Compete In Relationships
Competitive people have relationships, too. Focused on winning in your relationship? That sets you up as opposing forces, battling to win. Competitive people sometimes forget
Manage Anger Or It Will Manage You!
When people come to me for anger management coaching and classes, they often say: “I don’t like who I am when I let my anger
Do You Want to Keep Your Limitations?
Richard Bach wrote this remarkable line: “Argue for your limitations and they are yours.” It has had a great impact on my life. How many