Relationship Help: What if S/He says “NO” to you?
We live in la-la land sometimes. We think that because someone tells us they love us that that guarantees they will say “Yes!” when we
Relationship Help: What if S/He says “NO” to you?
We live in la-la land sometimes. We think that because someone tells us they love us that that guarantees they will say “Yes!” when we
Are you Self-Aware & “Other” Wise?
Becoming other wise is one of the greatest benefits of getting relationship help, even when you don’t think you need it. Gathering insights and learning
Relationship Help Doctor: Did your parents give you “fearing aids”?
Often the reason we know we need relationship help is that our parents, or other authority figures, fitted us out with “fearing aids” that get
Relationship Help: Divorce is not the only option when things go sideways!
So many people see few possibilities lying between loving and divorcing. There are options! No need for all-or-nothing thinking unless pre-meditated murder is the next
Relationship Help: Tips for Telling the Tough Truth
Relationships require honesty. That means you have to have the skills, willingness and ability to tell the tough truth. Sometimes that takes some relationship help.
Relationship Help: Predicting the Future of Your Relationship
Will your marriage thrive, survive or demise? Here’s some relationship help for figuring that out. Working with so many couples for so long, I have
Relationship Help: Good-Enough Parenting between Neglect & Over-Protect
Perfectionistic parents have a tough time with “good-enough” parenting. Other parents have a tough time finding the balance between the two extremes of neglecting and

Are You Engaged in All-or-Nothing Thinking?
From mountains to molehills, from molehills to mountains, and nowhere in between. That’s the dangerous territory of an all-or-nothing thinker who actually feels s/he is

Relationship Help: Are You Behaving in Passive-Aggressive Ways?
How do you know if you are passive-aggressive? Aside from the obvious wake of people who won’t get close to you, there are certain things
For Relationship Help: Put an End to Blaming!
If you’re always looking for someone to blame or blaming someone else for where you find yourself in life, you will never have close or