Ssssh! Your Secrets Are Never Safe With A Hijackal
Of course, you want the intimacy that is part of a loving relationship, especially the emotional intimacy of having that one special person who knows
When Is It A Rough Patch and When Is It Abuse? Recognize abuse!
No one likes to think of themselves as being abused, especially in an adult relationship. It’s time to know how to recognize abuse. It’s SO
Speaking When You’re Angry Costs Too Much. Do This Instead.
You are so angry and you just want to tell that !#&*()#$! what you really think…and what you believe s/he needs to know! Likely, that’s
Are You Told You’re Too Sensitive? [Hijackal® Hacks]
A person you care about says something mean, belittling or discouraging. You say, “Ouch!” Are you then told you’re too sensitive!” Do you hear that
How to Deal With Passive Aggressive People
If you have a person in your life who confuses you regularly with their consistently inconsistent behavior, you may be in relationship with a passive-aggressive person. That can be crazy-making. This post will help you respond in healthy ways…and help you keep your sanity!
Always Your Fault? Always Wrong? You May Be With A Hijackal.
Is everything–somehow–always your fault? Do you so much want to believe your partner loves you, yet, you are so frequently being hurt? Do you justify
Are We Making Too Big A Deal Over Emotional Abuse?
Whoa! Before you even think for a nano-second that my answer would be anything close to yes, it isn’t! The existence and validity of emotional
When A Hijackal is losing… they will resort to childish tactics. IS NAME-CALLING EVER OK? EVEN IN AN ARGUMENT? You lose it. You’re angry, out
5 Sad, Underlying Beliefs You May Have If You Were Raised By A Difficult Parent
If you were raised by a Hijackal®* parent, deep down, you know you’re not fine. You say you are, but you’re not. Maybe, you can’t
Those Red Flags! Why Didn’t I See Them Sooner?
Hindsight is excellent. You know that. One of the hardest things to see when you’re falling in love is those red flags. You want to
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