A Difficult Partner or Parent? Do These 3 Things When S/he Takes No Responsibility For Anything
Infuriating, right? A difficult partner–likely a Hijackal®–refuses to take responsibility for anything that is not praise-worthy. S/he will step right in if they can take
What Is Narcissistic Behavior? Believe Actions, Not Words!
Have you ever been lured into a store with the promise of a great–almost unbelievable–deal? Then, you get there and find that there are conditions:
You’re Not Me So You Don’t Know What I Think Or Feel.
Difficult people in your life–especially the relentlessly difficult ones I call Hijackals®–like to tell you what you think, what you feel, or what you should
Going Home for the Holidays & Hoping It Will Be Different?
Is it realistic to expect that you can go home for the holidays and people will treat you as you are at this point in
Keeping Your Cool When Hijackals Don’t!
Hijackals–those relentlessly difficult people in your life–like to think they have power over you. They practice that–in fact, check that–by trying to make you lose
Hoovering | Hijackal Relationships
“Hoovering?” Yes, it’s a thing! It happens in relationships with Hijackals®. Have you been “hoovered?” Have you walked away from the relationship for very good
Anger & Aggression Ruin Relationships. Think About This.
When there is anger and aggression, do the wise thing: look inward first. Why start with you? Because you can’t change others! Be wise. Start
Difficult People At Work Make You Want to Stay Home
Hijackals®, aka chronically difficult people at work, can create a daily hell when you have to interact with them. How do they show up and
Boomerang of Blame: Why Difficult People Make It All Your Fault
“It’s crazy-making! No matter how wrong s/he is, it’s always my fault. I’m to blame!” That’s what I hear from so many clients: everything is
Trapped By a Hijackal in Sheep’s Clothing? Beware!
Hijackals™ are chameleons when you first meet them. They will be just what you want them to be…and that’s the beginning of the path to feeling