
Back in 2018 I had the pleasure of introducing the concept of Hijackals to radio host, Emma Breacain on her show “Through the Eyes of

Back in 2018 I had the pleasure of introducing the concept of Hijackals to radio host, Emma Breacain on her show “Through the Eyes of

Ssssh! Your Secrets Are Never Safe With A Hijackal
Of course, you want the intimacy that is part of a loving relationship, especially the emotional intimacy of having that one special person who knows

Angry with a Hijackal®? Why Payback Won’t Work
Hijackal behavior is outrageous, and it gets your blood boiling too often, right? They are like vampires, draining your blood. And, you just want to

Know a Histrionic Hijackal? A Demanding Drama King or Queen?
Why Every Day Seems Like a Command Performance And what a performance! Do you ever shake your head as you watch? And, they all too

Crazy-making? Oh, yes. Hijackals and other narcissistic folks can create havoc. You start second-guessing yourself, and even questioning your sanity. You can’t tell which end

Speaking When You’re Angry Costs Too Much. Do This Instead.
You are so angry and you just want to tell that !#&*()#$! what you really think…and what you believe s/he needs to know! Likely, that’s

5 Co-Parenting Hacks for Raising Healthy, Happy Children with a Difficult Ex
How to keep the best interests and well-being of the children top of mind. Don’t make your children feel like pawns, messengers, or casualties of

6 Sad Ways Hijackals Abandon You…while you’re with them!!!
Wonder why you feel so alone even though you’re in a relationship? Hijackals–those relentlessly difficult, toxic folks–want to affect you, want to control how you

Why You Shouldn’t Go Back to a Hijackal® & How To Stay Away Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
ONE FROM THE ARCHIVES… You’re out! You likely took a long time to make the decision to leave the narcissist, or in my terms, the

Repeating The Same Fight? It’s Not About What You Think It’s About!
Most couples have “that” fight, over and over. It’s the one thing that never gets resolved. The one thing that doesn’t change. One, or both