Relationship Help Doctor: Did your parents give you “fearing aids”?
Often the reason we know we need relationship help is that our parents, or other authority figures, fitted us out with “fearing aids” that get
Relationship Help Doctor: Did your parents give you “fearing aids”?
Often the reason we know we need relationship help is that our parents, or other authority figures, fitted us out with “fearing aids” that get
Relationship Help: Divorce is not the only option when things go sideways!
So many people see few possibilities lying between loving and divorcing. There are options! No need for all-or-nothing thinking unless pre-meditated murder is the next

Relationship Help: Could You Have Unmanaged or Mismanaged Emotions?
We usually think that we are quite rational and justified in expressing our emotions. Some of us hold forth about them at length, given the

Are You Engaged in All-or-Nothing Thinking?
From mountains to molehills, from molehills to mountains, and nowhere in between. That’s the dangerous territory of an all-or-nothing thinker who actually feels s/he is
For Relationship Help: Put an End to Blaming!
If you’re always looking for someone to blame or blaming someone else for where you find yourself in life, you will never have close or
Relationship Help: Equality and Equity are Non-Negotiable
Is your relationship equitable, balanced? If it isn’t, you may need some relationship help. I was working with a client recently who told me how

Relationship Help: Does being right make it right?
Oh, we all like to be right, don’t we? Even if we keep the smug “I told you so” to ourselves, we like being right.
Relationship Help: Anger + Texting = Trouble!
Oh, the flying fingers that seal our fates! Relationships can be enriched by the loving text messages that let others know we care. But, let
Relationship Help: Is anyone listening???
There is a good reason that we have one mouth and two ears. The body seems to be telling us that listening twice as much
Relationship Help: Can the apple travel far from the tree? Yes!
Working with some wonderful men here in my Anger Management classes, I’m so encouraged to see that even though apples don’t fall far from trees,