Sowing Peace is a life long attitude

Thanks for the vid!, make more please. 🙂

Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.

This content has helped me tremendously. I now have tools to recognize and name the tactics being thrown at me and I have become much more empowered to stand in my truth and to stand up for myself. Highly recommend subscribing to all content – a cost effective alternative to (and/or supplementation to) therapy. Thank you Dr. Shaler!

Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.

Wow, listening to this made me feel as if you are actually speaking to me. Thank you.

I happened upon this Podcast probably because of others I have listened to on this topic. I love her term “hijackles” and how she defines this type of person vs a healthy person. She is knowledgeable and understanding. You’ll be enlightened as you listen. Thanks! 🥰

I love you Rhoberta Shaler; you have given me such power, inner strength, wisdom and invaluable insights. Thank you!

I enjoyed this program very much. There were tons of interesting anecdotes and advice and information. I feel like I gained a lot of insights and wisdom that will serve me well down the way in the future. I also feel like I met some really great people in my fellow classmates.

All I can say is OMG. 29 years. I cried with relief and understanding and validate I am not crazy or hard of hearing.

I stumbled (by no accident) across your podcasts 2 years ago after my X had raged and then was giving me the usual silent treatment. I credit all your sound advice for my finally understanding and getting out of the most abusive relationship I’d been in. I’ve only been with Hijackals. I’m blown away how much more discerning I am of future Hijackals. I spot them immediately and don’t have the urge to help them. Your work has transformed my life. I’ll keep reading/listening and learning.… Read more