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I wish I could leave headphones on all day to hear your calming voice and valuable teachings. I am new to your podcast and desperately listening and learning. Thank you for offering something that seems different and more HEALTHY than the approach of other podcasts I’ve listened to in the field of toxic relationships. You have a wonderful way of explaining things. I can’t wait to learn more from you and put your words of wisdom into practice.

I want to thank you for your work – I have come across it on Youtube while searching for how to respond to PA behaviour.

I have ordered and read your “Stop – that’s crazy making”, “Escaping the Hijackal trap”, “The Hijackal trap” and now I am reading “Kaizen for couples”.

Your work has really helped me see what is going on in my relationship with my partner.

I can’t afford individual therapy at the moment (I plan to do it), but I am in Al-Anon which also helps a lot.

I have set some boundrie… Read more

Woah, a bone chilling presentation!! Wish I’d heard it about 10 years ago!

I listen to your podcast and your YouTube videos. I like the guest speakers. Your voice soothes and strengthens me. My emotional mother.

Wonderful, you’re a fairy!!! Your true words go into my body and soul like an antidote, thank you so much!

Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.

Thank you Dr Shaler and may i just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.

Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.