Relationship Problems: Communicate. Don’t Dance for Two!
So often, when a couple comes to see me, one of them is “dancing for two.” You may recognize the pattern: one person knows what
July 11, 2011
Relationship Problems: Communicate. Don’t Dance for Two!
So often, when a couple comes to see me, one of them is “dancing for two.” You may recognize the pattern: one person knows what
Relationship with Yourself: Integrity – Holding True to Your Vision
How many of us had a clear sense of who were were and what were here to express when we were young? I venture to
Mom: The Gift That Keeps On Giving
Our mothers are the single most influential people in our lives. That alone makes her Number One. Well before we are born, her every decision
Relationship Problems: Who do I believe?
We get information from all kinds of places. If we entrust our thoughts and concerns about our relationship to other people, we will find most
Relationship Problems: Blame it on menopause?
What ever has happened to our interactions when business acquaintances hug and teachers aren’t allowed to, elementary school students have sex and married folks don’t!
Some people enjoy having their knickers in a twist!
Oh, the drama! Anything for the drama. You may know a person or two who fit that category. They can be exhausting, but, they are also longing for attention. This post offers insights in the Drama Kings and Queens to help you understand and respond to them considerately…and, with healthy boundaries.
Why are we so afraid of conflict?
Conflict = Fear to many people. If you don’t feel confident in yourself, your boundaries and your skills, you are likely to avoid conflict. It has an uncanny way of spilling out at the worst times, though. Better to understand why the fear is there with the insights in this post.
Is a nudge more effective than a shove?
Nudging is catching people doing things right! Use your time and energy for moving the positive forward. Use these ideas from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler to encourage & motivate effectively, negotiate without conflict, criticize without hurt feelings.
It’s the little things that can both let us know when peace is eluding us and when we are encroaching on another’s peace. Here’s a good example that happenes way too frequently. Read on.
Got anger? Three tasks to help you improve your relationships.
Anger is a healthy response to crossed boundaries. What you do with it can torch relationships or fan the flames of friendship? These three tasks will help you think through the best next steps for managing your anger…or that of someone you live or work with.