
How Hijackals Confuse You Through Cognitive Empathy
Understand why cognitive empathy is so empty compared to emotional empathy. They say they understand, and that they “feel” what you’re feeling. It feels real,

How Hijackals Confuse You Through Cognitive Empathy
Understand why cognitive empathy is so empty compared to emotional empathy. They say they understand, and that they “feel” what you’re feeling. It feels real,

Feeling Stuck With A Hijackal? Shift Your Thinking With These Tips!
Sometimes, you can feel SO stuck! The Hijackal–that relentless difficult toxic person–looms over your thinking, and keeps you in the shadow of fear. As I’ve

Are We Making Too Big A Deal Over Emotional Abuse?
Whoa! Before you even think for a nano-second that my answer would be anything close to yes, it isn’t! The existence and validity of emotional

When A Hijackal is losing… they will resort to childish tactics. IS NAME-CALLING EVER OK? EVEN IN AN ARGUMENT? You lose it. You’re angry, out

3 Big Reasons Why Hijackals NEVER Stop And Why You Must
You are kind, patient, considerate, compassionate, and nice. Perfect Hijackal® Bait! Sure, all people with those traits are not Hijackal Bait, but, if you’ve been

Boomerang of Blame: Why Difficult People Make It All Your Fault
“It’s crazy-making! No matter how wrong s/he is, it’s always my fault. I’m to blame!” That’s what I hear from so many clients: everything is