When Is It A Rough Patch and When Is It Abuse? Recognize abuse!
No one likes to think of themselves as being abused, especially in an adult relationship. It’s time to know how to recognize abuse. It’s SO
Are You Told You’re Too Sensitive? [Hijackal® Hacks]
A person you care about says something mean, belittling or discouraging. You say, “Ouch!” Are you then told you’re too sensitive!” Do you hear that
Feeling Stuck With A Hijackal? Shift Your Thinking With These Tips!
Sometimes, you can feel SO stuck! The Hijackal–that relentless difficult toxic person–looms over your thinking, and keeps you in the shadow of fear. As I’ve
Always Your Fault? Always Wrong? You May Be With A Hijackal.
Is everything–somehow–always your fault? Do you so much want to believe your partner loves you, yet, you are so frequently being hurt? Do you justify
How Will I Feel When I’m Leaving A Hijackal®, A Relentlessly Difficult Person?
Hijackals scavenge the relationship for power, status, and control, and leave you feeling discouraged, demeaned, and disempowered. You finally recognize the need to leave, and
5 Sad, Underlying Beliefs You May Have If You Were Raised By A Difficult Parent
If you were raised by a Hijackal®* parent, deep down, you know you’re not fine. You say you are, but you’re not. Maybe, you can’t
Those Red Flags! Why Didn’t I See Them Sooner?
Hindsight is excellent. You know that. One of the hardest things to see when you’re falling in love is those red flags. You want to
A Difficult Partner or Parent? Do These 3 Things When S/he Takes No Responsibility For Anything
Infuriating, right? A difficult partner–likely a Hijackal®–refuses to take responsibility for anything that is not praise-worthy. S/he will step right in if they can take
3 Big Reasons Why Hijackals NEVER Stop And Why You Must
You are kind, patient, considerate, compassionate, and nice. Perfect Hijackal® Bait! Sure, all people with those traits are not Hijackal Bait, but, if you’ve been
You’re Not Me So You Don’t Know What I Think Or Feel.
Difficult people in your life–especially the relentlessly difficult ones I call Hijackals®–like to tell you what you think, what you feel, or what you should
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