Oops! Are You Enabling A Narcissist? Steps to Stopping

You may not realize what counts as enabling when dealing with a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal®. Gain some clarity and insights into good steps to take to stop enabling now. Because you are good, kind, compassionate, or pleasing person, you may not realize the ways in which you are enabling a narcissist to continue […]

You’re Not Me So You Don’t Know What I Think Or Feel.

drama in my relationship

Difficult people in your life–especially the relentlessly difficult ones I call Hijackals®–like to tell you what you think, what you feel, or what you should think or feel. That’s covert verbal abuse! Did you know that? Where do they get off doing that? Yet, many people are so used to that behavior that they no […]

Stop Blaming Others: Why You Need To Give Up The Blame Game.

no winner at the blame game

Have you noticed that, when anything negative, unpleasant or embarrassing happens, people look for something or someone to blame? Even if they trip on the sidewalk, it’s the city’s fault, or bad workmanship, or the Universe out to get them! What about thinking about their part in it?  Not so much! How about you? Are […]