Perfection doesn’t bring personal peace

Dr. Shaler, you have just described my previous life!!! I was married to a hijackal for almost 20 years and left 10 years ago. It has taken me 10 years to recover, but I did. Where were you 10 years ago??? I so hope you can help others who feel trapped and crazy as I did. Thank you!

I sincerely appreciate diligent and experiential experts like you. I owe you one for my going no contact with the Covert Narcissist both episodically and for good…The untold story is yet to be shared. I’m both assertive and positive.

All I can say is OMG. 29 years. I cried with relief and understanding and validate I am not crazy or hard of hearing.

Came across this podcast while going through a very emotional and confusing time, and it’s been super helpful in highlighting lots of things that got overshadowed by past trauma that I couldn’t see clearly. It really feels like someone understands and can guide you to see more transparently and get through the difficult time in a toxic relationship. So thank you!

I happened upon this Podcast probably because of others I have listened to on this topic. I love her term “hijackles” and how she defines this type of person vs a healthy person. She is knowledgeable and understanding. You’ll be enlightened as you listen. Thanks! 🥰

I love you Rhoberta Shaler; you have given me such power, inner strength, wisdom and invaluable insights. Thank you!

Thank you very much for your love and joy of teaching others to use our gifts and talents more fully. I am enjoying my gift of being “present!”

I can HEAR the genuine concern you have for others in your voice. You are a beautiful soul and I thank you for your service to others’ well-being! 🙏

Great job! I love all of your videos! I filed for divorce and your videos helped me to do it without crying! You helped me to see clearly now that I deserve so much more. Thank you for your amazing work.