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no winner at the blame game

Stop Blaming Others: Why You Need To Give Up The Blame Game.

Have you noticed that, when anything negative, unpleasant or embarrassing happens, people look for something or someone to blame? Even if they trip on the sidewalk, it’s the city’s fault, or bad workmanship, or the Universe out to get them! What about thinking about their part in it?  Not so much! How about you? Are…

Setting Boundaries That are Clear & Well-Expressed?

Ever feel used, abused and confused?  It may be that you are suffering from “Boundaryitis”.  Boundaryitis ! You’re inflamed because people walk all over you. You have no boundaries to keep you safe. That’s what boundaries are for. Boundaries are fundamentally important to creating healthy relationships. They are essential in relationships with people you love, or…