Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic people, have both a need and a want to make you always feel not good enough. Understand why and learn to respond in empowering ways, and that’s a very good start!
Nothing you do, say, or are will ever be good enough…unless they want something from you. Then, they love-bomb you, and the person you fell in love with returns–for a hot minute! You know I’ve said many times in these episodes that the person you fell in love with was the Love-bomber. The person you are having problems with is the real person. Sad, but true!
So, don’t be listening another minute to a #Hijackal telling you that you don’t measure up. Don’t let a Hijackal put your down, wear you down, or tear you down for another second. Today, I’m laying out why they behave as they do so that you can clearly recognize it.
Then, SEVEN things you can quietly do to start pulling yourself up, no matter how hard the Hijackal wants to push you down!
Big hugs!
Rhoberta
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Why #Hijackals have unrealistic expectation
- How & Why narcissists and others will never allow you to feel good enough
- The abject entitlement of toxic people with traits like narcissists, sociopaths, and other Hijackals
- Why not and how not to lose yourself in a narcissist’s expectations
- The pairs of opposites you’ll face when you’re with a Hijackal
- SEVEN ways you can pull yourself up again when a toxic person has pushed you down
- How to take back your power
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