It’s all rosy, dreamy, and forever in the beginning…until it’s not! You try and try to recapture interest, regain emotional intimacy, and re-examine every inch of your mental, physical, emotional self, and still the connection is intermittent. That’s because narcissists–all Hijackals–create situationships NOT relationships.
You NEED the clarity of this distinction to really accept the realities of a Hijackal relationship. It helps a lot! Calibrate if you’re settling for a situationship. Great place to start!
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- Why it’s important to distinguish between a relationship and a situationship
- 25 ways relationships are different from situationships….AND situationships will seldom become relationships
- Unsettling things you need to know–even if you don’t want to know–to clarify why your supposed “relationship” never feels fully OK
- Can a situationship become a relationship? (Hint: rarely, if it’s with a narcissistic Hijackal….AND I MEAN VERY RARELY!
I’m here to help. Let’s talk soon.
Rhoberta
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