Kaizen for Couples

Are you in a long term relationship that feels a bit stuck?

OR, on the verge of starting a long term relationship and want to make sure you do it “right” this time?

Understanding your own patterns, (unhealthy) habits and default responses is critical to overcoming ongoing relationship difficulties.

Life Tip
Here's the truth

You BOTH deserve the best possible relationship. And you BOTH have to take responsibility for your part in it.

What does that mean?

Even if things feel distant, rocky, broken or hopeless right now, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s refreshing approach gives you the building blocks for blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships. Countless couples have turned to her for the relationship help they’ve needed to survive, revive and thrive together.

KAIZEN for Couples offers the insights, skills and understanding you need to:

  • Stop the emotional bleeding and grow the emotional intimacy
  • Engage normally again, without the constant drama
  • Tell the truth kindly and communicate openly
  • Approach your relationship with empathy and understanding
  • Respect and honor each other’s evolution and growth
  • Reignite the spark that brought you together


Hijackal Help

Know you’re not to blame

Experience joy and freedom again

drama in my relationship

Rebuild your self-esteem

Feel safe and anxiety-free

Hijackals are always creating drama, chaos and uncertainty

Take back a sense of control in your life

Reclaim your sanity

Hijackal Help

Being well-informed about Hijackals is critical to escaping the Hijackal Trap.

Escaping The Hijackal Trap: Your Definitive Guide to Dealing with Chronically Difficult People

In my book, Escaping the Hijackal Trap, you’ll learn:

  • The truth about Hijackals
  • Exactly why they are crazy-making, because sometimes you can’t really put your finger on it, right? (It really helps to see these in print, believe me.)
  • How to recognize other patterns of behavior that you have been subjected to, and don’t like at all
  • Why they are so compelling and why you believe them, rather than believing yourself.
  • How they constantly erode and invalidate you, even when they are being nice.
  • AND, what your first steps are to change all this and get your life back.

You will quickly realize that what they tell you is your fault is NOT your fault.

That’s big news! Oh, What a relief it is…
BUT… you need strategies, you need insights, you need skills…and you’ll find them here. 

Best next step?

READ THIS BOOK for a more in-depth understanding of the finer--and, the uglier--points, of dealing with Hijackals.

Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth about Hijackals & Why they are Crazy-making. 

Download it in PDF format NOW for just $7.


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