I specialize in working with the partners, exes, adult children & co-workers of the relentlessly difficult people I call "Hijackals®."
Do ANY OF THESE EXHAUSTING SCENARIOS SOUND FAMILIAR?
Tired of not being treated with respect?
Tired of tiptoeing around people to avoid conflict & confrontation?
Tired of the frustration of not resolving long-standing issues?
Tired of fear or anxiety about relationships issues?
Tired of being tired? Being upset? Being used or, even, abused?
Tired of worrying about the cost of getting expert help to resolve issues?
AND MOST IMPORTANT...Tired of putting off relationship problems that drag you down and wear you out?
STOP PUTTING IT OFF!
Get the help you need.
We can work to resolve your relationship problems, or, to gather new insights and skills to shift your relationship from good to great...or gone, if that's the next best step for you.
I can help you create new agreements you can live with, together or apart.
When you are ready to solve, resolve or recover from relationships issues, whether they are:
- within yourself,
- with your spouse or life partner
- with your family
- within your organization or community group
- with the folks you work with every day
- with aging parents and their care
You are ready to work with me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, directly. I will bring the insights, questions, expertise, experience and peaceful approach that will help you to find the best solutions for your relationship problems....whether you need to resolve them to come closer, or to resolve them to part.
When your relationship simply isn't "working" anymore, or "they've changed" or "they won't change" or "the spark is gone"... it's time for relationship help.
The best way to get relationship help is to work together and individually with an experienced professional who is honest, fair, peaceful and dedicated to helping you reach the very best outcome for you and your partner.
"Best outcome" means different things for every relationship, and I have "been there". I know relationships, and parenting (even great-grandparenting). And my 35+ years as a relationship consultant, educator, and professional mediator offers you insights, skills, questions, expertise, experience and a calm approach. I will help you to find the best solutions for your relationship problems....whether you need to resolve them to come closer, or to part.
Private sessions available to anyone, anywhere in the world, by Zoom private video, or by phone. In-person sessions are also available if you live in San Diego area.
READY TO WORK?
If you know that expert relationship help is your next best step and are ready to start, you can schedule an introductory 1-hour session to see how I can help.