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Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor, will work with you to develop the insights and skills required to find the solutions that will restore, rebuild and re-ignite your relationship. Dr. Shaler has been helping couples as a Relationship Consultant & Mediator for more than twenty-five years. She is the author of KAIZEN for COUPLES and the Relationship Help Blog. 

Build, deepen and strengthen your relationship.  Private sessions, classes & mediation provided by Dr. Shaler through The Optimize Center lead you towards engaging positively. If those conflicts are unable to be managed or resolved, relationship help is important for disengaging peacefully through mediation, coaching and consulting.

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