"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men recognize and recover from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 74+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Clients, Fans & Presenters say...
My partner offered me your video.. however, I am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now… I always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and I am always to blame.. and eventually I started to believe her as I love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. I feel secure again within myself.
I’m so relieved. I’ve been to several [sic:counselors] who sided with my crazy-making partner. Finally, someone who gets it, knows the feeling, sees the problem, and has helped me take positive steps.
Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.
Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people. You can see her accomplishments at https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/frhstaging.
Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.
I want to thank you for your work – I have come across it on Youtube while searching for how to respond to PA behaviour.I have ordered and read your “Stop – that’s crazy making”, “Escaping the Hijackal trap”, “The Hijackal trap” and now I am reading “Kaizen for couples”.Your work has really helped me see what is going on in my relationship with my partner.I can’t afford individual therapy at the moment (I plan to do it), but I am in Al-Anon which also helps a lot.I have set some boundries –… Read more
Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.
I listen to your podcast and your YouTube videos. I like the guest speakers. Your voice soothes and strengthens me. My emotional mother.
You have no idea how much that helped – thank you so much – I wish you love., peace and a night filled with stars and sweet dreams xx
Thank you for this excellent video. It was so helpful. Hard subject matter that you explained clearly and truthfully. I appreciate you and the knowledge that you are sharing.
Books by Dr. Shaler
10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
Escaping the Hijackal Trap: Volume 1 – The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
If You Wonder If You’ve Been Abused… You Likely Have. (Kindle)Buy on Amazon
KAIZEN For COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship (PDF)$7.99 Add to cart
Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch UpGet it on Amazon
Stop, That’s Crazy-Making!: How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart