"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 74+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Clients, Fans & Presenters say...
My partner offered me your video.. however, I am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now… I always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and I am always to blame.. and eventually I started to believe her as I love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. I feel secure again within myself.
Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.
I enjoyed this program very much. There were tons of interesting anecdotes and advice and information. I feel like I gained a lot of insights and wisdom that will serve me well down the way in the future. I also feel like I met some really great people in my fellow classmates.
Woah, a bone chilling presentation!! Wish I’d heard it about 10 years ago!
The help and information you share makes me feel I can breathe again. I am not alone in this. Thank you.
Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people. You can see her accomplishments at https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/frhstaging.
My partner offered me your video.. however, i am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now.. i always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and i am always to blame.. and eventually i started to believe her as i love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. i feel secure again within myself.
Thank you very much for your love and joy of teaching others to use our gifts and talents more fully. I am enjoying my gift of being “present!”
So thankful for all this help you share <3 I Found your channel just in the right timing. All you explain is like you are living inside my marriage and outer circle. I am going to love reading your books for more information, so that I know the how to’s in the near future. It’s amazing that I still hold on to my sanity, whilst having to deal with all this lunatic behavior. Although my health took a big toll, and it’s no wonder, so much frustration and let-downs, questioning the what happened, I … Read more
Books by Dr. Shaler
10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
Escaping the Hijackal Trap: Volume 1 – The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
If You Wonder If You’ve Been Abused… You Likely Have. (Kindle)Buy on Amazon
KAIZEN For COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship (PDF)$7.99 Add to cart
Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch UpGet it on Amazon
Stop, That’s Crazy-Making!: How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart