"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men recognize and recover from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 98+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Testimonials
This content has helped me tremendously. I now have tools to recognize and name the tactics being thrown at me and I have become much more empowered to stand in my truth and to stand up for myself. Highly recommend subscribing to all content – a cost effective alternative to (and/or supplementation to) therapy. Thank you Dr. Shaler!
You have no idea how much that helped – thank you so much – I wish you love., peace and a night filled with stars and sweet dreams xx
Thank you for this excellent video. It was so helpful. Hard subject matter that you explained clearly and truthfully. I appreciate you and the knowledge that you are sharing.
I love you Rhoberta Shaler; you have given me such power, inner strength, wisdom and invaluable insights. Thank you!
Dr. Shaler, you have just described my previous life!!! I was married to a hijackal for almost 20 years and left 10 years ago. It has taken me 10 years to recover, but I did. Where were you 10 years ago??? I so hope you can help others who feel trapped and crazy as I did. Thank you!
Thank you for another great episode. Those master manipulators are tricky. We need all the ammunition we can get to survive this emotional warfare.
I will always be beholden to you and your expertise. Being sincerely indebted to you. My battle was with my Intuition and perception contrary to what the Shrewd Narcissist wanted me to believe once I was given shelter in their make-believe Dungeon and world of smoke and mirrors.
I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.
Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.
Ah ! Because of this page and your help . You’re an angel, honestly. I would still be doing the same thing I was doing a year ago if I hadn’t met you.
Thank you very much for your love and joy of teaching others to use our gifts and talents more fully. I am enjoying my gift of being “present!”
Books by Dr. Shaler
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10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)
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Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)
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How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)
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Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up (Paperback)
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Stop, That’s Crazy-Making! (PDF) How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game
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The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)
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Wondering If You’ve Been Emotionally Abused? If you have reasons to wonder…(Kindle)
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