Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information, will motivate your people and give them the strategies to shift their results from acceptable to EXCEPTIONAL!
Your decision today to book a keynote, seminar, book-signing or interview is a decision your audience will thank you for, for a long time!
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience
Emotional Savvy: Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
Save Your Sanity: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
The Relationship Help Doctor: More than 370 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
Plus a weekly livestream on Mondays, at 6pm Pacific. New topic each week, with opportunities to ask questions and get in-depth support.
Interested in hosting Dr. Shaler on your podcast?
If you’re considering engaging Dr. Shaler for your event:
Each workshop or speaking topic can be customized to address the specific needs of your organization, so please give Rhoberta as many details about your requirements as possible.
“Camp Pendleton is fortunate to have wonderful speakers as Rhoberta. Thank you for bringing her onboard.”
– Recent Participant in Camp Pendleton’s Civilian Leadership Development Program
Clients, Fans & Presenters say...
Woah, a bone chilling presentation!! Wish I’d heard it about 10 years ago!
Thank you Dr. Shaler, and may I just say, thank you for your work and your writings. You may have no idea just how much of a lifeline i have been thrown just by finding you and now your group.
Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.
Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people. You can see her accomplishments at http://forrelationshiphelp.com.
Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.
I thought I may never have this freedom, I actually felt very little when he tried to pull me in. Thank You THANK You ?
Coming from a non-functional childhood, being able to learn healthy relationship skills and techniques allows me to feel confident in myself as I grow. Thank you, Rhoberta, for your openness, skilll, and kindness throughout the program. I am confident the skills I have learned will make me a better person in all aspects of life.
I thought of you many times over the last period of time.
I want to express my thank you to you as you helped me very much in a period of time that was difficult for me and when I had no knowledge nor methods to overcome them alone.
Further more, I’ve read some of your books and conversations with you stimulated wonderful work on myself, which is ongoing.
Thank you so much.
As foretold, my ex got busy trying to engage me on Christmas Day. Thank you, Dr. Shaler for the heads up. Because of this page and your help, I was able to have a wonderful Christmas and not get sucked in ! That’s progress.
Books by Dr. Shaler
10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)$2.99
Escaping the Hijackal Trap: Volume 1 – The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)$3.99
How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)$2.99
If You Wonder If You’ve Been Abused… You Likely Have. (Kindle)
KAIZEN For COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship (PDF)$6.99
Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up
Stop, That’s Crazy-Making!: How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game (PDF)$3.99
The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)$3.99