"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men recognize and recover from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 74+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Clients, Fans & Presenters say...
Testimonials
I listen to your podcast and your YouTube videos. I like the guest speakers. Your voice soothes and strengthens me. My emotional mother.
Ah ! Because of this page and your help . You’re an angel, honestly. I would still be doing the same thing I was doing a year ago if I hadn’t met you.
So thankful for all this help you share <3 I Found your channel just in the right timing. All you explain is like you are living inside my marriage and outer circle. I am going to love reading your books for more information, so that I know the how to’s in the near future. It’s amazing that I still hold on to my sanity, whilst having to deal with all this lunatic behavior. Although my health took a big toll, and it’s no wonder, so much frustration and let-downs, questioning the what happened, I … Read more
These are AMAZING recommendations! So practical and to the point. ‘Be the model for what you want to be for your children!’ Thanks so much, Dr. Shaler.
Raised by, and all partners have been Hijackals. The last,was the most damaging. Thanks to you, after nearly 5 years of Severe verbal and emotional abuse, I’m out! I recommend you to women I meet who are in same boat. I’ve learned so much from you, the cycle is over!! Thank You ❤️
I thought of you many times over the last period of time.
I want to express my thank you to you as you helped me very much in a period of time that was difficult for me and when I had no knowledge nor methods to overcome them alone.
Further more, I’ve read some of your books and conversations with you stimulated wonderful work on myself, which is ongoing.
Thank you so much.
I have tried being part of your livestreams; however, our time zones are different-the podcasts are livestreamed early in the morning. Nonetheless, I always watch the recorded videos. You have changed my life and helped me find life again. Thank you, with love from Capetown, South Africa
I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.
Thank you I love listening to you at my bed time 🌙 💤 it makes me feel safe and not crazy ✨
Thank you for understanding me when no one else can, thank you for being here for me when no one else can. You are beacon of light in the darkness of my situation
This is so true what you are talking about LoL . Thank you, I have never heard about this [diagnosis] earlier in life. Thank you, God Bless You
Books by Dr. Shaler
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10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)
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Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)
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How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)
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KAIZEN For COUPLES (PDF): Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship
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Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up (Paperback)
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Stop, That’s Crazy-Making! (PDF) How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game
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The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)
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Wondering If You’ve Been Emotionally Abused? If you have reasons to wonder…(Kindle)
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