"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men recognize and recover from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 74+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Clients, Fans & Presenters say...
I listen to your podcast and your YouTube videos. I like the guest speakers. Your voice soothes and strengthens me. My emotional mother.
Thanks for the vid!, make more please. 🙂
Not sure if you will even read this. I found your podcast. It has changed my life. And I wanted to thank you.
I enjoyed this program very much. There were tons of interesting anecdotes and advice and information. I feel like I gained a lot of insights and wisdom that will serve me well down the way in the future. I also feel like I met some really great people in my fellow classmates.
Each week between classes, I was receptive to a lot of the concepts we discussed the previous week. Learning the concepts opens your eyes to them. Being able to recognize them makes them useful tools to build a better relationship.
My partner offered me your video.. however, i am mind boggled that it is her that is the Hijackal.. it all makes sense to me right now.. i always knew that she doesn’t take responsibility for her actions and i am always to blame.. and eventually i started to believe her as i love her .. Oh my god! your video is incredible and enlightening.. i feel secure again within myself.
I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.
That was such a well done interview and so helpful to me! –I took 11 pages of notes! –
Thank you for understanding me when no one else can, thank you for being here for me when no one else can. You are beacon of light in the darkness of my situation
This is so true what you are talking about LoL . Thank you, I have never heard about this [diagnosis] earlier in life. Thank you, God Bless You
Raised by, and all partners have been Hijackals. The last,was the most damaging. Thanks to you, after nearly 5 years of Severe verbal and emotional abuse, I’m out! I recommend you to women I meet who are in same boat. I’ve learned so much from you, the cycle is over!! Thank You ❤️
Books by Dr. Shaler
10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
Escaping the Hijackal Trap: Volume 1 – The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)$2.99 Add to cart
If You Wonder If You’ve Been Abused… You Likely Have. (Kindle)Buy on Amazon
KAIZEN For COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship (PDF)$7.99 Add to cart
Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch UpGet it on Amazon
Stop, That’s Crazy-Making!: How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart
The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)$4.99 Add to cart