"International Relationship Consultant helps women and men recognize and recover from crazy-making toxic relationships."
Your audience will enjoy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler’s unique blend of warmth, wisdom and a wealth of information and insights.
Dr. Shaler has a broad and growing audience.
A popular podcaster, with listeners in 98+ countries, Dr. Shaler brings a new perspective and wealth of information to your listeners, viewers, and summit attendees.
PODCAST: Save Your Sanity – Help For Toxic Relationships: Straight, compassionate talk to help you clearly see the patterns, traits, and cycles of the relentlessly difficult people I call Hijackals®. Understand what’s really going on within their volatile or passive-aggressive ways.
Emotional Savvy Podcast (archived): Your go-to source for life-changing shifts in how you think about–and create relationship with–yourself and other humans.
YOUTUBE: The Relationship Help Doctor : More than 350 videos (and growing) to empower the viewer to create healthier relationships with other humans, especially the relentlessly difficult, toxic kind that I call #hijackals.
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Testimonials
You have no idea how much that helped – thank you so much – I wish you love., peace and a night filled with stars and sweet dreams xx
Thank you for this excellent video. It was so helpful. Hard subject matter that you explained clearly and truthfully. I appreciate you and the knowledge that you are sharing.
Please meet my dear friend Dr. Rhoberta Shaler who is highly health aware and a master at navigating people through relationship dynamics like no other I know and from a very unique and empowering perspective. She is especially gifted at working with spouses, partners, exes and colleagues of relentlessly difficult people.
I can HEAR the genuine concern you have for others in your voice. You are a beautiful soul and I thank you for your service to others’ well-being! 🙏
In this program, the information shared was very enlightening. The Personal Weather Report(TM) is a great tool to use everyday and I get in touch with my thoughts, feelings, needs, ad wants. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler really knows the dynamics of relationships.
All I can say is OMG. 29 years. I cried with relief and understanding and validate I am not crazy or hard of hearing.
I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.
I loved the science of facial coding recognition introduced by Dr Hill. I intuitively used it in my childhood to escape a beating from my anger addicted Mom. The facial change was a shift in her energy field which opening the curtain to her feelings and helped me get away. It is a life saving technique for everyone living with an abusive person. Thanks so much Rhoberta and Dr Hill for sharing your knowledge.
So thankful for all this help you share <3 I Found your channel just in the right timing. All you explain is like you are living inside my marriage and outer circle. I am going to love reading your books for more information, so that I know the how to’s in the near future. It’s amazing that I still hold on to my sanity, whilst having to deal with all this lunatic behavior. Although my health took a big toll, and it’s no wonder, so much frustration and let-downs, questioning the what happened, I … Read more
I enjoyed this program very much. There were tons of interesting anecdotes and advice and information. I feel like I gained a lot of insights and wisdom that will serve me well down the way in the future. I also feel like I met some really great people in my fellow classmates.
I found Dr. Shaler to be very knowledgeable with many solutions to relationship challenges.
Books by Dr. Shaler
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10 Absolute Essentials You Need to Keep Your Anger from Managing YOU! (PDF)
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Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth About Hijackals and Why They Are Crazy-making (PDF)
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How To Spot a Hijackal® (PDF)
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KAIZEN For COUPLES (PDF): Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship
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Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up (Paperback)
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Stop, That’s Crazy-Making! (PDF) How to quit the Passive-Aggressive game
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The Hijackal Trap – The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression (PDF)
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Wondering If You’ve Been Emotionally Abused? If you have reasons to wonder…(Kindle)
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