Rhoberta Shaler, PhD is The Relationship Help Doctor™

When you want to bring the best to your audience, bring them Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor.


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Give your audience the empowering insights they need to have the healthy relationships they want!

For more than thirty years, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler has deeply touched audiences, both in person and on air, by giving them the insights they need to recognize, realize, and recover from toxicity in relationships, at home and at work.

She talks about tough stuff. Real stuff. Sad stuff, stuff that needs to be addressed, stuff that happens to people every day, and needs to stop.

The Relationship Help Doctor, Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Even the United States Marines have called on her for help!

Dr. Shaler particularly helps the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She helps them save their sanity and stop the crazy-making. She defines Hijackals as people who hijack relationships–for their own purposes–while relentlessly scavenging them for power, status, and control.

Dr. Shaler, on panel with John GrayCharles J. OrlandoJennifer Maddox and Shannon Rios Paulsen

Check Dr. Shaler’s Youtube channel for all her videos and podcast episodes

Rhoberta offers the insights, strategies, and support you need to reclaim hope, confidence–and your sanity–when dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of Hijackals in your life, at home and at work.  She is the author of sixteen books, including her new Hijackal ebook series, Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Definitive Guide to Dealing with Relentlessly Difficult People, available at Amazon.

Your audience will thank you for bringing Dr. Rhoberta Shaler to your program because they will walk away with new insights, ideas and inspiration to make their relationships stronger, closer and more intimate. Hearing her speak empowers them to think differently about their relationships and see new pathways to communicate, manager anger and conflict , and collaborate in more loving, wise ways.

Well-known for her gentle, effective blend of humor and practical wisdom, Dr. Shaler shares her insights in clear, simple ways that make a lasting impression. What she shares has “stick-ability!” The takeaways are immediately workable and lives change in positive ways.  She helps her audiences get to the heart of communication, conflict and collaboration, and see possibilities where they once saw pain.

An acclaimed and popular keynote speaker, her light-hearted approach and value-packed content help audiences quickly grasp valuable solutions, strategies and support. After more than twenty-five years as a sought-after relationship restorer, author and professional speaker,  Dr. Shaler continues to develop new programs to meet the specific needs of her clients and to meet the challenges she sees in the lives of couples worldwide.

Author of over two dozen books and audio programs, including her most recent books Escaping the Hijackal TrapKaizen for Couples: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship , Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds ofWork, and Soul Solitude: Taking Time for Our Souls to Catch Up, Dr. Shaler has spoken to audiences throughout North America and internationally.

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