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I wish I'd heard that before
Woah, a bone chilling presentation!! Wish I’d heard it about 10 years ago!
Like it!
Thanks for the vid!, make more please. ????
Finally...
I’m so relieved. I’ve been to several [sic:counselors] who sided with my crazy-making partner. Finally, someone who gets it, knows the feeling, sees the problem, and has helped me take positive steps.
Chilled my bones
Chilled my bones when she said about trying to get you pregnant as means of control! Once I was pregnant (with twins), I suddenly felt terrifyingly trapped and it only dawned on me then.
My emotional mother...
I listen to your podcast and your YouTube videos. I like the guest speakers. Your voice soothes and strengthens me. My emotional mother.
...changed my life
Not sure if you will even read this. I found your podcast. It has changed my life. And I wanted to thank you.
Thank you for the strength.
Thanks to you, I saw a pattern and realized I was being manipulated. After a very abusive day yesterday I ended the relationship. Thank you for the strength my friend.
Life-changing
I’m thankful you’re getting the word out, Dr. Shaler! It has made a life-changing difference for me.
I can breathe again
The help and information you share makes me feel I can breathe again. I am not alone in this. Thank you.
very knowledgeable
I found Dr. Shaler to be very knowledgeable with many solutions to relationship challenges.
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