Interested in Dr. Shaler's 3R's Retreat?
There are two ways you can participate!

Why come to the 3Rs Retreat:
Recognizing, Realizing, and Recovering From Hijackals®? 

  1. You want to feel good about yourself, your choices, your future, your skills, and your ability to see red flags immediately!
  2. You know that being with a Hijackal® has lasting effects that you MUST be aware of. You want to deeply understand how the experience has/is affecting you and your life. 
  3. You can’t seem to get the nagging, nasty, negatives that you’ve heard out of your head–and out of your heart.
  4. You still blame yourself for many things that you sadly took too much responsibility for in these relationships.
  5. You want to move forward with a more realistic view of how you may think about yourself.
  6. You want to become exceptionally good at clarifying, expressing, and maintaining your boundaries…especially in the face of Hijackals, but with all people.
  7. You want a healthy relationship with yourself and others, without the shadow of the Hijackal(s)
  8. You want to be with a small group who can absolutely and confidentially relate to what has happened in your own life, because Hijackals love to isolate you, and you can also isolate yourself.
  9. You want in-depth, personal answers to your questions from Dr. Shaler where there is time to talk about things.
  10. You’re ready to feel good, confident, assertive, optimistic, certain, and peaceful. 


To reduce the "Hijackal Effect" in your life, the dark corners--where fear, negativity, and vigilance wait to pounce--need to be exposed.


You want to be free from the tentacles that Hijackals wrap around your soul.


That's how they can keep you hooked on hope that they will change, that one day they will be the person you want to believe they can be.  


You cannot change them, and they have no interest in changing themselves. You know that.


Free yourself.

Get new insights, information, and inspiration to move beyond the influence of a Hjiackal to a greater sense of your you. Your values, your vision for your life, your beliefs, goals and purposes.


You know you are not here to cower under the wrath, uncertainty, control, power, and displeasure of a toxic person...even if s/he is a parent!


We have so much to talk about. To allow us that space and trust, I am only opening up for twelve people at each retreat. 

Two full days: May 5 & 6, 2018 - 9AM - 5PM (Saturday and Sunday).
with optional, included, Friday Evening get together.

Crowne Plaza Hotel, New York (across from JFK Airport)


Attend only the 2-day Retreat with optional Friday Evening meetup

Attend the 2-day Retreat AND sign up now for the 6-week Followup Group Coaching Program

The 2-Day Retreat ONLY is $697.


For a very limited time I am offering it for just $577.


You must act quickly. This price is only good until March 6!

The retreat with the Followup Group Coaching package is $1297.


You can save $300 if you sign up by March 6. Pay just $997 for the whole package.

Not sure you can make it to this one, but would like to be informed of other Retreats in other locations? 


Let me know you're interested and I'll be sure to keep you in the loop. I am  currently scheduling retreats for San Diego and Dallas areas.

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