
Dealing with EMPATHY-DEFICIENT People
There’s that person who seems incapable–and, also unwilling–to ever put themselves in your shoes, right? Or, that person who doesn’t want to hear anything about
Dealing with EMPATHY-DEFICIENT People
There’s that person who seems incapable–and, also unwilling–to ever put themselves in your shoes, right? Or, that person who doesn’t want to hear anything about
Don’t Be Sucked In By Future Faking!
“OK, Babe, I promise you the world.” But, what about delivery? Learn more about how Hijackals trick you into believing they are GOING TO do
BEWARE! Why Hijackals Generalize, Globalize & Gloss Over
Hijackals will do whatever they think they need to do to “win” in any moment. Generalizing, globalizing and glossing over information is a strategy–a trick–they
Working Through the GRIEF & RELIEF of Leaving a Hijackal
It can be such a rollercoaster! Whether you’re thinking about leaving, or have left, you can run between grief and relief. Knowing how to think
Use my “Get to NO Guilt” Strategies in this episode. You often don’t get much support for going no contact with the relentlessly difficult people
Circular Conversation. Crazy-Making
So many parallels to being in a blender!. Those conversations that go round and round and get you right back to focusing on the Hijackal.
How That Might Show Up in YOUR Relationships Having a parent who could not love is NO reflection on your lovability! As a child, you
Know a Histrionic Hijackal? A Demanding Drama King or Queen?
Why Every Day Seems Like a Command Performance And what a performance! Do you ever shake your head as you watch? And, they all too
Why Trauma-Bonding is SO Confusing
Never Mistake It for Love Am I in love or trauma-bonded? Did my parents love me or was I trauma-bonded? Essential to know! Understanding trauma-bonding–what
Oh, the webs Hijackals weave to trap you into their fabric! One of those is playing the victim, and another is the “you don’t care
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