NARCISSISTS = The Ultimate Frenemies
You want a best friend and a narcissist won’t be one. You want a confidante and a narcissist uses your words against you. At best,
July 6, 2023
NARCISSISTS = The Ultimate Frenemies
You want a best friend and a narcissist won’t be one. You want a confidante and a narcissist uses your words against you. At best,
Narcissists are AWKWARD. ANGRY & ARGUMENTATIVE
Sure, narcissistic folks can be charming when you meet them. You just don’t know what’s lurking in the background, right? It can happen quickly that
Giving TOO MUCH? Empathy & Compassion Can TURN TOXIC!
In healthy situations, you would never think that empathy and compassion could have downsides, right? When you’re with a Hijackal, a narcissistic, or other endlessly
Is a Narcissistic Hijackal Blowing Up Your Phone?
A BIG complaint I hear so often is that the partner of a narcissistic person–a Hijackal®–is blowing up their phone…daily. It’s such a sign of
How Narcissists EXPLOIT Your Natural Longing for Love & Belonging
It is natural to want to be loved and love. We organically want to belong. Absolutely! It’s healthy, too. However, narcissistic people and all Hijackals
Narcissists are Masters of Crazy-making WhatAboutism
Ever feel your head spin when you’re trying to express your feelings, thoughts, wants, or needs to a Hijackal? Of course, you have. That’s because
NARCISSISTS! Do They Hurt You on Purpose?
People ask so often: Do narcissists and other HIjackals know that they are being mean, difficult, coercive, dismissive, and more? You want to know. In
Narcissists: Rigid Thinkers Who Demand to be Right
Rigid thinking and what-about-ism are seriously linked. Know someone who is rigid in their thinking? They are RIGHT and that’s all there is to it?
Why Emotional Abusers Prefer People-Pleasers Who Fawn
Maybe, you’re too nice. You fawn. You’ll do anything to keep the peace…or, at least, sidestep potential rage if you can. Peace at any price,
SETTLING for Crumbs Leads to EMOTIONAL MALNUTRITION
Narcissistic people starve you in so many ways. Every now and again a narcissist–a Hijackal–is kind, offers a compliment, or shows interest in your feelings. THOSE
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