I need to know if he “likes me like that”

q-100

 Ok so I have this guy friend and he likes me.

So my guy friend he knows I like this other guy.

So one day he asked if he was interested in me and the guy I like responded and said he didn’t like me like that. I don’t know if he likes me but everyone says he does. We kind of act like a couple but we’re not.

Is my guy friend jealous or is he telling the truth? I’m confused I’m going to ask the guy I like about this but I don’t know how to say it to him. Please help me! Thanks.


 

a-100HI,

Confusing, right?  I think it is always best to be as direct in your communication as possible. Simply be honest: tell the guy you like that you are drawn to him as more than friends and see how he responds.  You might say something like this:

“I really enjoy being with you. When we’re together, it feels like we’re a couple. Do you feel it, too?

Then, you give him the opportunity of sharing what’s up for him.

When you go through others to try to figure out what may really be going on, you always leave yourself open to the interpretation and needs of the “go-through” person. I suggest you just summon up your confidence, know that you have the right to express your thoughts and feelings in clear, honest, kind, direct ways, and do so–no matter what part of life you’re in! You’ll find that it is usually the best way to gain clarity.

I wish you well.
Dr. Shaler

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