Telling you the truth is a good start. Why would he want to go and stay with a female friend for a few days? What is the purpose of the visit? From what you wrote, it seems he is going on a vacation or a getaway. Is that true?
If that is true, then there is a big “why.” I would need more information to give you an honest answer.
I wish you well.
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