Relationship Help Podcasts

We have great podcasts to help you create the healthiest life and relationships you've ever experienced...the ones you long for, where you are seen, heard, known, acknowledged, accepted, and appreciated!

Every Tuesday, enjoy a new conversation with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler and a carefully chosen expert guest. You’ll get excellent information, insights, and strategies for clearly seeing what is going on in your relationship with yourself, your partner, your parents, teens, children, co-workers, and those difficult toxic people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®.

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Every Saturday, get the insights you need to see, understand, and make good decisions and changes to manage the difficult, toxic–often disturbing–relationships with the people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®! Tips about loving them, living with them, leaving them, being raised by them, divorce, court, custody, alienation, pain, and more!

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Who would benefit from listening to these podcasts? If you answer yes to ANY of the questions below... then YOU would!

Is your relationship in crisis?
Do you wish you had more confidence?
Are you tired of constant Drama?
Do you feel comfortable to speak up when you're put down?
Raised by Toxic Parents?
Do you know want to have better boundaries?
Too much Crazing-Making Conflict?
Do you need help to see your relationship clearly?
Need help dealing with Relentlessly Difficult People?

I'm Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.  I offer urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis.

I'll bring you new perspectives, insights, and strategies to create healthy, “grown-up” relationships...and to shift away from relationships that are unhealthy, controlling, and dysfunctional.
You want to feel equal, to experience reciprocity without score-keeping, to know someone has your back while walking by your side. Because nothing less will do!

This is the only podcast devoted to helping you handle those relentlessly difficult people I call "Hijackals®." Those are people who hijack your relationship for their own purposes. Then, they continually scavenge it for power, status, and control. They leave you feeling gutted, discarded, devalued, and emotionally raped.


Be a guest expert! We welcome submissions from recognized and published professionals who would like to contribute to the conversations Dr. Shaler is having.

If you have valuable insights, ideas or information to share, I’d like to hear from you!

Complete a Guest Application Today.


Want to ask Dr. Shaler a question for her to answer on air?

 Submit a question by email or, tell your story on air in person.

Get Help:

Dr. Shaler is accepting clients for relationship consulting & mediation. If you are ready to make meaningful changes to the way you proceed in your relationship(s),  be sure to talk with her right away! 

Already know you want to get to work?

Book a QuickStart Session with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, or really commit with an 8- or 15-week package.

You cannot solve any difficult relationship issues without a serious commitment. It takes time, and it takes real WORK.

I will walk with you, and guide you through the learning that you need to communicate better, understand each other more clearly, and develop personal and relationship boundaries that will keep you on track and build trust again.