eCourse: Handling Hijackals: What You Need to Know and Do To Save Your Sanity Around Relentlessly Difficult People


If you are ready to stop feeling used, misused, and even, abused by a Hijackal in your life–partner, ex, parent, or child–then,  this is the next best step for  you.
It’s time to stand up, speak up, and step up to take back your life. The HIjackal won’t like it, and we’ll cover how to manage that in this program.

If the program described below makes you feel hopeful, it’s for you!
Extensive eCourse with videos, articles, reflection questions, AND three small group coaching sessions.

Ample time to get your questions answered after the lessons. Don’t wait.

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You have been–or still are–in a relationship with a relentlessly difficult person, a Hijackal™.

Hijackal behavior is crazy-making. It causes you to constantly second-guess and doubt yourself, AND, question your sanity. It feels bad.

Maybe, you haven’t been ready to call it verbal abuse, or emotional abuse, but it sure feels like that.

It’s time to get the experienced professional help you need to make some sense of this muddle, and to stop the crazy-making.

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorI’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, and author of Escaping the Hijackal Trap, The Hijackal Trap, and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making.

I know what you’re going through. I’ve been there, done that, and have both the ugly T-shirt and disgusting video!

I was raised by an extended family of Hijackals.  Married and divorced from Hijackals. And, now make it my focus to help the partners, exes, and adult children of these relentlessly difficult people save their sanity and stop the crazy-making!

I know what it takes to get yourself into a new courageous, confident, empowered mindset while extricating yourself from the clutches–verbal, emotional, mental, and/or physical–of a Hijackal. That could mean changing your strategies to change the relationship, or leaving the Hijackal and working through the labyrinth of courts, co-parenting, and confusion.

What’s a Hijackal? That’s the term I coined for people who hijack relationships–for their own purposes–while relentless scavenging them for power, status, and control. Sound familiar?

Hijackals are charming, manipulative, seductive and exploitative. You know that. You need the new insights, strategies, understanding, and support to

Handling Hijackals: A Self-Study eCourse with Small Group Coaching calls is a great next step.

This program gets you the answers to your very pressing questions in real time, and the support of a group who knows exactly what life is like for you. They believe you, and in you.

You’ll get the support you need, and also know you are certainly not alone in living with the extremes of a Hijackal.

I hope you’re as excited about working with me as I am about helping you find the clarity, strength, and peace of mind you deserve.

Hijackal Handling is your opportunity to talk with me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, directly to:

  • get your personal relationship questions answered in depth
  • understand the abusive behavior patterns of the Hijackal in your life
  • learn proven strategies for responding to Hijackal behaviors
  • have a Facebook group to talk with others in your group between classes
  • strengthen your confidence to be more assertive
  • find strategies to speak up effectively

If you’ve been raised, roused, or run roughshod over by a Hijackal, you know that you have been alienated by love. It’s time to recognize what’s really going on, and take charge of creating the life and relationships you want and deserve. Now is the best time for that.

I want to help. Let’s talk soon.

Dr. Rhoberta Shaler


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