Focus on Forward Membership

Get Relationship Help with your Focus on Forward membership. Only $39 for the first three months. $14/month following, recurring.

Membership gives you access to:

  • Pre-set and Custom private discussion groups
  • Articles, checklists, and exclusive audio & video resources
  • Allies & a support network
  • Safe place with no facebook required
  • Weekly Zoom video group call
  • Early access to new video/podcasts
  • A personal profile viewable by members only

Other Features:

  • Membership application is thorough to provide optimal safety.
  • A safe space with others who have had similar experiences
  • Moderated by Dr. Shaler, personally.
  • No Facebook or any other social media required to participate.

We want all members to be safe and to feel secure.

That is why we have chosen to provide a private sanctuary for you.  This is a place for people who are struggling in relationship with a Hijackal – a relentlessly difficult, toxic person. If the Hijackal is your spouse, your ex, your parent, your boss–or, someone you feel you HAVE to communicate and spend time with, or are not ready to release from your life–then, you are in the right place to get support.

Membership is subject to the following conditions: 

  1. Complete all required registration fields
  2. Agree to complete confidentiality – what happens in the sanctuary stays in the sanctuary
  3. Agree to a culture of mutual respect, politeness, empathy and support. Members who demonstrate they are unable to have respectful and supportive dialogue will be ejected without discussion nor refunds.
  4. Agree to only disclose what you are comfortable discussing with others. Do not simply blurt out a rant and then decide you shouldn’t have said that. Be thoughtful in your sharing.
  5. Agree to use non-violent language. This is a safe place, and many folks may be recovering from highly-traumatic situations and relationships. Be considerate of your fellow members.


Join today. Complete the form below to start your healing journey with me.

ALL the fields below are required, in order to become a member. *

Membership is subject to agreeing to the conditions above. Members who choose not to conduct themselves in a manner appropriate to this space will have their membership terminated with no notice and no refunds.

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*The fine print:

Memberships are non-refundable, but you can cancel anytime. Your membership will remain active until the end of your most recent billing cycle (unless you are terminated for bad behavior). 

Membership is at the sole discretion of Dr. Shaler.