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Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
The Relationship Help Doctor

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  • Rhoberta Shaler, PhD posted an update in the group Group logo of Raised by a HijackalRaised by a Hijackal 4 weeks ago

    When tragedies strike, are you triggered badly? If fires and shootings upset you deeply, you are likely triggered by past abuse. Let’s talk about that.

    • i was surprised by the emotional reaction i had when listening to the news about the fires the other day… i wouldn’t say “triggered” but it’s rare that I have physical reactions to things like that. I imagine it’s just a wave of empathy 🙂 but maybe it’s more. I don’t know…

      • It’s a good thing if it’s a wave of empathy! I think we respond deeply to the possibilities of pain and loss. We’ve all felt that, and that’s what empathy is.

        The trick for all of us is to have healthy empathy and compassion…for ourselves and others. Too many people cannot keep that balance, and they go too far, for too long.

        If you came…[Read more]

  • When tragedies strike, are you triggered badly? If fires and shootings upset you deeply, you are likely triggered by past abuse. Let’s talk about that.

    • The people of Thousand Oaks, California, had to deal with a bar shooting, followed by fires that destroyed the homes of several of my friends. Horrible shock, stress, and loss! If any of them have emotional, physical, or sexual abuse in their earlier lives, it could be so much more difficult.
      Have you had to deal with anything like that?

  • I’m so excited that we have created a place for you to discuss very personal things that is far away from the eyes of Facebook, and the rest of the world. It is hosted right here on my website, so, it’s safe, safe, safe.

    What is the most pressing issue for you right now?

    • Kera replied 1 month ago

      Members can comment and share insights just like on facebook… without having to be on facebook!

    • Our conversations here are safe, and secret. No one can join here unless I have approved of them.

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