Hijackal Help

You need Hijackal Help. Being on the receiving end of Hijackal™ behavior leaves you second-guessing yourself and questioning your sanity. It’s crazy-making!
I’ve been there, and I know what it takes to change all that, for yourself and for your children.  I’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, and I can help you.

A great first step in Hijackal Help is to download my free ebook,  How to Spot a Hijackal. It will help you SEE patterns that you maybe only FELT before. Such an important first step. And, knowing you’re not alone helps, too.

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Cover of Dr. Shaler's book - Escaping the Hijackal Trap - available on AmazonBeing well-informed about Hijackals is critical to stepping out of the Hijackal Trap.
For a more in-depth understanding of the finer–and, the uglier–points, read my in-depth ebook:  Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth about Hijackals & Why they are Crazy-making. Download it now.  Available on Amazon 

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