Hijackal Help

Escaping the Hijackal Trap

There are things you've probably known for a while but have been actively avoiding wanting to believe about your partner, your ex, or your parent.

I know. It's hard to believe because you want to keep hoping things will change.

I know this because I, too, have been prey to Hijackals. I was raised by one, married one, divorced one, co-parented with one, and attracted a few more before I took it on to study exactly what was happening, why, and what to do about it! Yes, that's true! 

That's how I have come to understand them so well, and how I can help you avoid some of the pain, frustration, sadness, loneliness and anger that is undoubtedly coming your way. And, I'll help you know exactly what to do and say to stop some of the crazy-making. And, to stop second-guessing yourself.

Life Tip
Here's the truth

It's time to get relief, and play on your own team, rather than the Hijackal's!  Right?

Know you're ready right now to take the next positive step?  Download my ebook, Escaping the Hijackal Trap,  in PDF format NOW for just $7.

What does that mean?

It means if you want to STOP feeling like you're going crazy, and you want to take back your sense of control around your own life, YOU are going to need to recognize these Hijackal patterns of behavior, and start taking different action.

YOUR HIJACKAL IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE.

NOT GOING TO STOP. NOT GOING TO GIVE UP TRYING TO SUBDUE YOU--emotionally, financially, psychologically... or physically, if it's come to that.

Why? Because Hijackals HAVE to win, in all things, at all times, over everything large and small.

YOU are going to need to take matters into your own hands, and take positive steps toward reclaiming yourself, your sanity and your life. And, YOU CAN DO IT!

Do I mean you have to end your relationship?

No, not necessarily - but maybe, if that's the safest, smartest thing to do. I'll help you figure that out.

First, however, you can learn strategies, insights and skills to help you co-exist differently with the Hijackal in your life. Learn these first because you'll definitely need them later!

Know you're not to blame

Experience joy and freedom again

drama in my relationship

Rebuild your self-esteem

Feel safe and anxiety-free

Hijackals are always creating drama, chaos and uncertainty

Take back a sense of control in your life

Reclaim your sanity

Being well-informed about Hijackals is critical to escaping the Hijackal Trap.

Escaping The Hijackal Trap: Your Definitive Guide to Dealing with Chronically Difficult People

In my book, Escaping the Hijackal Trap, you'll learn:

  • The truth about Hijackals
  • Exactly why they are crazy-making, because sometimes you can't really put your finger on it, right? (It really helps to see these in print, believe me.)
  • How to recognize other patterns of behavior that you have been subjected to, and don't like at all
  • Why they are so compelling and why you believe them, rather than believing yourself.
  • How they constantly erode and invalidate you, even when they are being nice.
  • AND, what your first steps are to change all this and get your life back.

You will quickly realize that what they tell you is your fault is NOT your fault.

That's big news! Oh, What a relief it is...
BUT... you need strategies, you need insights, you need skills...and you'll find them here. 

Best next step?

READ THIS BOOK for a more in-depth understanding of the finer--and, the uglier--points, of dealing with Hijackals.

Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth about Hijackals & Why they are Crazy-making. 

Download it in PDF format NOW for just $7.