Dr. Shaler’s Relationship Help Circles
This is a safe place for you to be among friends and peers. You can relax and know you’re with folks who have been or are in relationship with a Hijackal, and know what you’re going through.
Also, I’ll be in and out of discussion groups several times each day to add my voice with specific answers, insights, skills, and strategies. I’ll help you find the clarity you need to know exactly what to do next!
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If you are living with someone who:
- always makes you wrong
- constantly makes you feel like you’re not good enough
- makes you second-guess yourself
- makes everything your fault
- never takes responsibility for anything
- never sincerely apologizes
You need these immediate insights, skills, and strategies. You’ll get support –and relief–from Relationship Help Circles.
When you are hurt, confused, demeaned, and exhausted by your relationship, you need to be “where everybody knows your name,” where everyone knows the journey.
- Ask your questions.
- Express your feelings.
- Ask for insights and support.
- Learn new strategies
- Learn from other people’s experiences
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- Access our private discussion groups facilitated by me (no Facebook required!),
- Receive Emerge!, my 21-steps to Clarity, Confidence & Personal Power email course ($27 value)
- Access to curated & recommended videos & podcasts
- Access to member’s only video collection
- Free Audio “Booster Shots”
- 30% discount on Saturday Support sessions & ebooks 27
the Learning Circle benefits, plus...
- Free access to Saturday Support sessions (reg $25/week)
- Advance question submission for answers on Saturday Support
- Opportunity to book single sessions with me when a problem comes up – non-members must purchase multi-session packages
- Opportunity to submit questions, by email, that I’ll answer by video
- Access my “Relationship FAQs” – searchable Q&A’s to get you the answers you’re looking for
- Free access to my ebooks – Escaping the Hijackal Trap, 10 Absolute Essentials for Managing Anger, and Beware! The Hijackal as Predator
- 20% discount on webinars, ecourses, etc.
I’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, and I’ve created a safe place of support for you, away from Facebook, so you can feel secure. Share your journey. Ask your questions. Learn, grow, and heal.
In your life journey, you’ve likely met one or two of the relentlessly difficult, crazy-making folks I call Hijackals®. That’s what has drawn you to this group. I certainly have. I was raised by Hijackals, married, divorced and co-parented with one, and have been through some of what you are experiencing now. That’s why I want to help.
I created the word, Hijackals®, to describe people who hijack relationships–for their own purposes–and then, relentlessly scavenge them for power, status, and control. It could be a parent, partner, ex, friend, or co-worker.
I can help you if you’re with a Hijackal, have left one, or were raised by one.
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