Category Archives: Relationship With Yourself

What Good Is There In Receiving Criticism From Someone You Hardly Know?

Have you ever experienced receiving criticism from someone you hardly knew–and, who hardly knew you?  It’s a strange situation, isn’t it? I think so. I wonder if they think it is a way to build intimacy in a relationship that is barely past the acquaintance stage? Or, is it an attempt to demonstrate their vast awareness…

Hijackal parents are difficult people, disturbed people

5 Sad, Underlying Beliefs You May Have If You Were Raised By A Difficult Parent

If you were raised by a Hijackal®* parent, deep down, you know you’re not fine. You say you are, but you’re not. Maybe, you can’t even put your finger on how you know you’re not. I want to help with that. You may not have all five of these deep-down beliefs about yourself, but I…

those red flags I didn't see

Those Red Flags! Why Didn’t I See Them Sooner?

Hindsight is excellent. You know that. One of the hardest things to see when you’re falling in love is those red flags. You want to fall in love. It’s wonderful. It’s magical. Nothing should get in its way. Not even a Hijackal™*! Those red flags may not have been waving wildly, just quietly and occasionally.…

RELATIONSHIP HELP FOR COUPLES!

Kaizen for Couples Being well-informed about Hijackals is critical to escaping the Hijackal Trap. Best next step? READ THIS BOOK for a more in-depth understanding of the finer–and, the uglier–points, of dealing with Hijackals. Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth about Hijackals & Why they are Crazy-making.  Download it in PDF format NOW for just $7.

What Is Narcissistic Behavior? Believe Actions, Not Words!

Have you ever been lured into a store with the promise of a great–almost unbelievable–deal? Then, you get there and find that there are conditions: the deal is only available for people with perfect credit, green hair, purple eyes, an IQ of 220 and whose mother had no children? Otherwise,  you’re out of luck. Or,…

Hijackal™ Help

Escaping the Hijackal Trap Being well-informed about Hijackals is critical to escaping the Hijackal Trap. Best next step? READ THIS BOOK for a more in-depth understanding of the finer–and, the uglier–points, of dealing with Hijackals. Escaping the Hijackal Trap: The Truth about Hijackals & Why they are Crazy-making.  Download it in PDF format NOW for just Read More > >

Hijackal Help

Your free ebook , How To Spot A Hijackal, should be in your INBOX for download now! (Can’t see it? Be sure to check your spam folder!) Being well-informed about Hijackals is critical to escaping the Hijackal Trap. Best next step? READ THIS BOOK for a more in-depth understanding of the finer–and, the uglier–points, of dealing with Read More > >

Going Home for the Holidays & Hoping It Will Be Different?

Is it realistic to expect that you can go home for the holidays and people will treat you as you are at this point in your life? Or, will they treat as they are comfortable thinking of you as they knew you? Sometimes, people like to keep us in the box they drew around us…