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competitive people in relationships

Competitive People Compete In Relationships

Competitive people have relationships, too. Focused on winning in your relationship? That sets you up as opposing forces, battling to win. Competitive people sometimes forget that’s not what creates great, stable, long-term relationships. You need to become a joint force, a team. You and your partner doing life together. That’s the basis you need to…

Get relationship help now for yourself if you suspect you are living with, or divorced from a high conflict person.

Manage Anger Or It Will Manage You!

When people come to me for anger management coaching and classes, they often say: “I don’t like who I am when I let my anger fly!”  They are disappointed, embarrassed, humiliated, and/or, having to mop up a big spill of emotions that didn’t need to happen. You might say, “Yes, it did! I just couldn’t stand…

Mediation Services to solve relationship problems

If you are having relationship problems at home or at work,  I can help. Conflict is inevitable. Combat can leave you dead right, but, dead nonetheless! Mediation creates clarity, communication & collaboration to live with new agreements. – Rhoberta Shaler, PhD Whether you are focused on improving your relationship, or ending it, my clients say Read More > >

If you are experiencing relationship drama, you are in the right place.

Here you will find the advice you need to stop the drama! Plus new proven strategies to make your relationship more loving, respectful, honest, trusting, supportive and intimate. RECENT NOTE FROM A CLIENT: “Thank you for helping repair our once great relationship. We both feel strongly it is getting back to where it was because Read More > >

Am I Seeing A Passive-Aggressive Man?

Passive-aggressive people do passive-aggressive things. Until you say “NO!”, this pattern will continue! Today a woman called the office to ask if there was any hope for her relationship because she really thinks the man she’s involved with is passive-aggressive. She also wanted to get her hands on a copy of my ebook, Stop! That’s…

Getting Off A High-Conflict Emotional Roller Coaster

Is your relationship usually a high conflict roller coaster ride? If it’s always spills and thrills, peaks and valleys, you may be involved with someone with high-conflict traits.  If you can describe your relationship as usually having to be “walking on eggshells”, it’s even more likely. And, it’s exhausting! As you likely know, I often…

Relationship Help: Is it Positive Commentary Running in Your Head?

Do you have a running commentary in your head about everything, and everyone you see?  Glass half full, or glass half empty? What are you seeing and how is it affecting your relationship?  Most folks do have a running commentary–or even relentless judgment–running in their heads. The question is: is it mostly positive, or mostly…

Am I Living with a Passive-Aggressive Man?

An unlikely, but newsworthy, top story: “Passive-aggressive men drive their partners crazy daily!” Are you being driven crazy by the behaviors of a passive-aggressive man? Read below and see. Yes, of course, passive-aggressive behaviors are not limited to men. But for today’s post, I want to focus on them because, often, we women have deep-seated inclinations…

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